Micro-calibration

[maestro]

I thought it would be useful to put this here which is my current understanding of micro-calibration, for more on this you can read "Revelations"

The 5 types of communication, obviously there is more than 5 but to simplify it you can interpret communication as such:

DHV-Demonstration of Higher Value

DLV-Demonstration of Lower Value(Other people like girls and guys do this, not you)

Indicator of Interest(Whether it's you or the girl indicating interest to you)

Indicator of Disinterest

and 

Compliance Test(Asking a girl to do something for you like hold your drink or take your hand)

As far as I understand the game is simply this: you IOD to the "target" with indicators of disinterest while you DHV to the group and in return you get either an IOD or IOI in return. If you get an IOD then you IOD back and then DHV again and wait for IOIs, if you get an IOI then you can compliance test(getting her to wear your hat or hold your drink..) if she complies you reward her with intermittent IOIs and IODs if she doesn't comply then you IOD and DHV again until you receive more IOIs and compliance test again. It all seems a bit complicated but I have observed players doing this exact thing and it's interesting when you have a "framework" of communication to understand things like this. Some people do this naturally but it's worth mentioning! 

[JackZero]

I hate to see you or anyone do this because you may push away someone that may actually be interested and that person may sour you to the group. The best tactic, IMO, for a group is charm and flirt with the entire group without focusing on anyone. It is more likely that you'll get at least one person in that group interested in you and that will spark competition in most of the group. I know some guys that use the tactic of not flirting with the girl that they are most attracted so it will cause them to want attention from you as well, but to me it isn't necessary.

The process is more like this:
Decorum - Join the conversation without taking over. You'll want to add value to the conversation as opposed to making it about you. This takes the groups guard down.
Show interest in multiple women - For example: If you give one woman a compliment, give another one a different complement. What you'll notice is that you will start getting compliments back. You'll start seeing interest in you from the women. That's when you start narrowing it down to who you actually want.

The ability to charm a group is a passive DHV. Your value increases without appearing to put in any effort to do it. The best part is, you aren't disqualifying anyone and in turn not disqualifying yourself from anyone. In turn, you'll see a lot of women qualifying themselves to you.

[maestro]

That sounds great as well, definately you can get more than one women working for your attention. I think the whole ignoring her thing isn't really ignoring her but just "flirting with her: because really "negs" is another word for "flirting with the girl" but doing it in a way that makes her want your attention. Thanks!