Post by tinman on Apr 24, 2018 20:17:54 GMT
Opened a girl at the bar next to me after making eye contact briefly.
Said ''Hey! How's your night going?'' She looked a bit confused like she wondered why I was talking to her. Not sure whether to use a statement of empathy with night game like ''I know this is weird, me talking to you, but bla bla bla'' like they do in day game, but I didn't in this instance. She gave me confused ''fine..?...''. I asked what she was up too tonight but she looked at me and then back-turned. Not to worry. Move on to the next. I guess I wasn't her type
Opened girl standing at one of the tables near the dancefloor who appeared to be watching people dance. Opened with something like ''you look like you want to get out there and dance''. She said ''I do? No. I'm good''. I asked her name and she gave it. Asked her what she had going on that night and where she was gonna end up. She mentioned the main club down the road. Her body language looked a bit uncomfortable and I thought about ejecting as I thought she was probably another 'no girl' but decided to give it a few more seconds. Tried to cold read her job to make conversation. Think I guessed teacher. She said she was a beautician. I accused her of watching weird videos on youtube or people squeezing spots and she sort of laughed and said 'gross'. I felt for a second that she might start to open up a little here (hadn't asked me anything back and kept her answers super short with disinterested body language) since I got her to smile. Asked her how old she was. She told me (22). Racking my brain for things to ask her now and there was an awkward silence which she used as a way too excuse herself and she bailed.
Next open was almost identical. Opened girl with a comment on an item of her clothing. ''I like your jacket'' or something. Confused looking 'thanks'. Went through the whole name/age/plans for the night stuff. Facial expression just looked a bit uncomfortable. I likely bored her, but not on purpose. Just don't know what fun things to say to make her laugh at this stage in the interaction when her guard is still up. At a quiet point after that, she backturned but didn't leave. I carried on talking to my friend next to her hoping that maybe she'd re-engage but didn't happen
Went to the dancefloor. After a while some girl opens me and tells me she recognises me. I've never seen her before i'm sure. I ask her name/age/plans for the night etc, but I guess the difference between a girl who thinks your hot and one (all the above girls?) who don't showed itself, as she was just answering each question with a story after each answer, and then asking ME. This feels good lol. After a while we are kind of flirting and I decide to show some intent and tell her I'm gonna make her my girlfriend for the next 5 mins or something. She giggles. We carry on chatting and I increase the kino. After a while I go in for the makeout and we kiss for a little while and I make sure to pull away first. Carry on chatting and stuff. I go upstairs to take a leak and when I come back she and he friends have all gone, lol. Not too bothered.
Feeling a mild ego boost from that interaction, although still aware that I don't have anything to say that 'hooks' girls (as shown in the first 3 approacches) and that I only do OK when girls basically open me, lol - I decide to try some direct game. Made 3 approaches where I basically opened girls and told them I thought they were hot, but all 3 backturned. (One at the bar, 2 on the dancefloor)
Called it a night there as it was pretty late now.
Said ''Hey! How's your night going?'' She looked a bit confused like she wondered why I was talking to her. Not sure whether to use a statement of empathy with night game like ''I know this is weird, me talking to you, but bla bla bla'' like they do in day game, but I didn't in this instance. She gave me confused ''fine..?...''. I asked what she was up too tonight but she looked at me and then back-turned. Not to worry. Move on to the next. I guess I wasn't her type
Opened girl standing at one of the tables near the dancefloor who appeared to be watching people dance. Opened with something like ''you look like you want to get out there and dance''. She said ''I do? No. I'm good''. I asked her name and she gave it. Asked her what she had going on that night and where she was gonna end up. She mentioned the main club down the road. Her body language looked a bit uncomfortable and I thought about ejecting as I thought she was probably another 'no girl' but decided to give it a few more seconds. Tried to cold read her job to make conversation. Think I guessed teacher. She said she was a beautician. I accused her of watching weird videos on youtube or people squeezing spots and she sort of laughed and said 'gross'. I felt for a second that she might start to open up a little here (hadn't asked me anything back and kept her answers super short with disinterested body language) since I got her to smile. Asked her how old she was. She told me (22). Racking my brain for things to ask her now and there was an awkward silence which she used as a way too excuse herself and she bailed.
Next open was almost identical. Opened girl with a comment on an item of her clothing. ''I like your jacket'' or something. Confused looking 'thanks'. Went through the whole name/age/plans for the night stuff. Facial expression just looked a bit uncomfortable. I likely bored her, but not on purpose. Just don't know what fun things to say to make her laugh at this stage in the interaction when her guard is still up. At a quiet point after that, she backturned but didn't leave. I carried on talking to my friend next to her hoping that maybe she'd re-engage but didn't happen
Went to the dancefloor. After a while some girl opens me and tells me she recognises me. I've never seen her before i'm sure. I ask her name/age/plans for the night etc, but I guess the difference between a girl who thinks your hot and one (all the above girls?) who don't showed itself, as she was just answering each question with a story after each answer, and then asking ME. This feels good lol. After a while we are kind of flirting and I decide to show some intent and tell her I'm gonna make her my girlfriend for the next 5 mins or something. She giggles. We carry on chatting and I increase the kino. After a while I go in for the makeout and we kiss for a little while and I make sure to pull away first. Carry on chatting and stuff. I go upstairs to take a leak and when I come back she and he friends have all gone, lol. Not too bothered.
Feeling a mild ego boost from that interaction, although still aware that I don't have anything to say that 'hooks' girls (as shown in the first 3 approacches) and that I only do OK when girls basically open me, lol - I decide to try some direct game. Made 3 approaches where I basically opened girls and told them I thought they were hot, but all 3 backturned. (One at the bar, 2 on the dancefloor)
Called it a night there as it was pretty late now.