Monday Venture FR NYC

[lvnglegacy]

So I got out of school yesterday after finishing up my Law and Family Relations final around 5 pm and the weather was mid 70s. I got on the train and did not feel like going home so early, so what did I do? I went wherever life took me. 

I took the train 34th Street Penn Station and walked around.

As soon as I got off the train I saw one lightskin girl who had her hair in dreadlocks riding the escalator right in front of me. So I tapped her and asked her if she was Jamaican cuz I liked her hair. She didn't give me much play and walked off. I didn't let that get me down, this is New York. Too many females. So I kept pushing.

I walked down the strip where they had several chairs and tables lines up for people to sit, relax, and eat. I saw two foreigners sitting at a table. So I approached them and said Hi, I'm Trey whats yours. They exchanged names. Asked them how long they were here for. Their english wasnt that good so there was a minor barrier. So I kept it brief and told them we should get together before they leave and do something fun. They said No. So I kept it moving. 

I saw a girl sitting at a table next to them by herself. I went up to her but she said she was on break and didn't want to be bothered. So I went to the table next to her where there was a woman sitting down. She told me she was pregnant and was only sitting to get some rest. 

I saw another girl eating some fast food on a ledge and I tried to approach her as well but she told me she was hungry and was cramming food before her break ended. I didn't know this until I walked down the strip of chairs that one couple was watching me the whole time. But I didn't care, so I pressed on. 

I walked 2 more blocks where I was on the corner of a Dunkin Donuts. I looked to my left and there was a lightskin girl with blond and black hair. Without hesitation I approached her and told her, "I like your hair." She said thanks. I said is it real? She went on to say the black was the real hair the other was extensions. I tried to spit my game to her but she put me on hold while trying to order her food. I felt weird while talking and not in the nervous aspect. But in the aspect that she was pulling me on the string, not the other way around. So I left her without saying anything. 

So I walked another block where I saw a girl on the phone. I told her Hi. Good Afternoon, how are you. She gave me a little attitude and said she was on the phone. So I told her to tell the guy, "You will call him back". She seemed offended but I didnt care. So I walked away. 

10 steps later I saw an asian walk in my direction. So I stopped her and said Hi, I'm Trey and shook her hand. As we shook hands I exclaimed, "Damn, your hands are sweaty!". She said sorry she was running to work because she was late. So I told her  to take my number and text me her name. I believe if a girl is truly vested into you she will text you. 

I reached 42nd Street. I didn't want to walk around the square because I'm around there too often. So I crossed the street and began to walk back. 

As I walked back I saw a spanish girl on my right. So I put my hand out and pointed to her and said Hi. She started smiling. As she kept talking she had this teeth that looked weird to me. She said she was columbian. I said I been out there, there are a lot of beautiful women out there. I would never have seen it in you. She laughed. So I started talking to her without looking at her. Then when she started talking to me I started to semi ignore her. Meaning I heard what she was saying but didn't acknowledge it. So I gave her my number and told her to text me without even looking at her. She told me she is very busy but I didn't care. 

As I walked back past the strip with the tables and chairs. I looked at my watch 5:51 pm. Still too early. So I made a right and walked some more. I made it to the Madison Square Garden and saw some steps across the street and decided to try some new game. 

I approached one girl who was playing PokemonGo trying to catch Latios. I said wait are you team Valor, Mystic, or Instinct. She said the blue one and started laughing. I said I cant talk to you then. She said she wasn't staying long just trying to catch the pokemon. She asked me what do I do. I told her, it's not about me right now its about you. Then I looked her in the eye and said beauty is common and what's rare is a great vibe and social outlook on life. What do you possess that would make me want to talk to you. She got offended and said why do I got to prove myself to you. I told her, it's not even about that. It's about getting to know you for more than your looks but rather what's underneath. She said she had to go, I told her we were going the same way and she said no and ran off. 

I saw another set with two girls. One modeling while the other took pictures.I approached the one acting model and asked her if she was a model or was she trying to be one. She said she wasn't. So I told her my name and shook her hand. Then told her, that her had was sweaty and wiped my hand on my pants. She tried to exclaim that it wasnt but I wasn't listening. I turned to her friend and asked her why wasnt she being the model and have her friend hold the camera. She said she didn't want to be. In my head I said I know, I can see that. So I turned back to the target and told her I had to attend a business meeting take my number. She opened her bad looked through and said she didn't have her phone and showed me the contents of her bag. I told her I dont normally take numbers but I'll take hers and she put it in my phone. 

I met another girl on the platform as I walked to the train station. I posed to her the same question I told pokemon chick about beauty being common. She told me it was a weird question and I explained how it wasn't weird. Then made a joke on how she's accustomed to guys saying Hi, sweetheart how you doing? She laughed. I gave her my number and left. 

I got home and only the spanish girl text me saying Hi Trey, Its Lisa. With a two finger emoji showing the peace sign. I didn't respond. 

I met another girl this morning on the platform on the way to school who is from Belarus. It's in between Poland and Russia from what she told me. She is here to study english and been here for a year. I gave her my number and she texted me saying Hi, Trey its Veronica have a great day. 

This is my report. I look forward to the next venture. 

[lvnglegacy]

Wednesday's Field Report

So today as I was finishing up my draft for my Civil Procedure take home final, I decided to go out on another venture since I would be done around 3:30 p.m.

I took the train and while I was on the platform I saw a white girl and approached her. I told her I had a dilemma and used the Maury Povich opener. She had some skin peeling off so I said damn, what happened to your skin. I think she got offended because she told me it was a sunburn and then said bye as we hopped on the same train. I just smiled and kept it pushing.

I got off on 34th again to make the same rounds. Tried to stop one girl but she didnt give me no play. It was filled with failures today as I tried to stop girls as they walked in my direction, was sitting down, but to no avail.

It finally came when I was sitting in the station while waiting for the train. I said I was not going to hop on a train until I successful get a girl to connect with. I missed about 4 trains and then a girl that was kind of thick sat down 3 seats away from me. I got up and checked to see the time of the next train and then sat next to her. I told her I liked her hat, where she got it from. I didn't care just wanted to make convo. She started to give detailed directions to the store. I told her all I heard was blah blah blah. Just give me the name of the store. She laughed and I told her I wasn't from NY. (A small lie I tell females, or maybe its flirting.) She asked where I'm from so I told her North Carolina and only came up for school. Train came and she was mid sentence so I told her to take my number. She said she got a man. Told her I dont care. I dont want to be her boyfriend. She laughed and took it.

So I got on the train and I saw a white girl who looked tired. As soon as the couple next to her got off, I made my move and sat next to her. I tapped her with the back of my hand and said I been taking a body language class and I am eager to see if what I learned works. You look like your tired, and you had a long day. As I study you more I can tell that your a runner. She smiled and said yes. I said you go to St. Johns and she said she graduated from it. I asked her for her major. She said communications and looked away without saying anything else. So I said that's it? (Thought she was going to say more). She said yes. I told her she was a poor communicator. She got mad and tried everything in her power to not look at me, even tried to turn her back to me. So I started laughing.

She got off next stop and another girl came on. Moment I saw her I knew I had her. The body language, the vibe, I read it perfect. She was wearing a brooklyn Nets shirt and was dancing. So I looked at her for two seconds, then pointed two fingers at her shirt. She took her headphones out. I said you a Nets fan? (In disgust). She said Noooo! Are they that bad? (IOI, asking questions, overslurred No, headphones completely out signifying undivided attention). I said I cant fuck with you cuz you rocking the Nets. She started laughing. (Everyone on the train was watching me, even the old heads.) So I said what you bumping to, Nicki Minaj or was it CardiB? She said CardiB. So I said be honest, did you like her last album? She said yes. I said I heard that shyt was weak. She started laughing.

So she asked me if I fucked with CardiB or Nick Minaj? I said neither. She said I cant talk to you. SO I said I fuck with sixnine. (As a joke, he cool tho). So then the person next to me got up, and she said she want to sit next to me before someone steal the seat. (IOI, want to sit next to me before someone else comes). So she started to ask me some questions like whats my sign, my birthday, do I believe in god, and whatnot. I told her damn you mad demanding, asking me all these questions. She started laughing and asked me if she could ask me a question. (IOI, she wants to ask my permission to talk to me).

So as I was leaving I said so how we going to continue this convo. She said I can fuck with you, normally I dont talk to people and brush them off but you seem cool. I'll take... no you take my number down because I dont text niggas. (These are her exact words). I told her there you go demanding shyt again, I'm not taking your number down. She laughs and said then I guess we not going to talk no more. I told her to take my number and she hit me up! She took it and called it and then texted me her name an hour later. (IOI. she wants to see more of the kid).

I was hoping the girl that was a poor communicator stayed on so she could see how little she was worth and see the envy on her face.

This is my report for the day. I would talk about other girls but they dont matter. They either dubbed me or didn't hit me up. So fuck em.

[GFRESH2DEF]

As a general rule..you want to be hitting the girl up, as opposed to sitting back and waiting for her to hit you up. 9 times out of 10 she won't hit you up first, and she will flake on you. You will find out very quickly if you haven't already..that whenever you take the lead, that is when the girl get's attracted to you. Whether it be on the approach, in the conversation, or number closing. Girls don't like taking the initiative, you have to do it. Alphas lead, Betas follow. And women are looking for for Alphas (or if you are not an Alpha..you still need to have some Alpha traits that she's attracted to).




-G

[lvnglegacy]

I dont know bro. I used to take girls numbers down when I first began the game a couple years ago. I started having more success by giving them my number. I am not saying this to be arrogant or hardheaded but from what I experienced if you make a girl really interested in you she will hit you up. That in a way is an automatic IOI. Girls give out numbers all the time whether they be fake or real, out of sympathy, or just to get you away from them, especially when your not in a social setting. Some don't even give out their real numbers!

As long as you spit your game to the point where a girl is comfortable around you she will hit you up from my experience.

[GFRESH2DEF]

Well there are always those exceptions to the rule. Likewise..when i text the girl first (using a similar text template that i use for every girl), i usually get a response back as well. Maybe you have figured out some kind of loop hole to make what you do work for you. You probably lead the frame in the initial interaction, while establishing alot of comfort with her at the same time (in other words..you made a good connection with her). So by the time the girl get's home and reflects on it..she has positive thoughts and feelings about the interaction with you. So i can see how that could get the girl to reach out to you first. But i still stand firm on this. Generally speaking..as a standard principle, guys should be taking the lead. It's just a good habit to undertake. You're just more likely to do better with women if you are assertive, as opposed to being passive. Being pro-active and taking matters into your own hands, as opposed to just passively leaving things to fall where they may. But if you have figured out another way to accomplish the same exact result..good on you!




-G