Live blog sarging

[chocolatepua]

Guys I'm put at an event. I'm going to live blog and update as I go. I should mention I've been here a while just enjoying the vibes.

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It's a Caribbean themed event in London. Will also be taking a few pictures to give u a guys a good understanding of the type of crowd.

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First approach fizzled. Second approach went better. The point now is to get in my warn up approaches.

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Third approach went decent.
Will try and give breakdown of each approach later (If i remember) THIS one was "green lantern"

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4th and 5th approaches. Will probably be too busy too.message after this

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Fourth and fifth approaches J and e. Necessary to remember their names

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Guys...always remember to check for wedding rings. Even if they don't care, their friends will

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Sooo...FINALLY getting around to posting a detailed review of my evening out. Live blogging during my sarges didn't work as I keep getting logged out while on mobile for some reason.

So I decided on a really basic opener which is specific enough, and is grounded in the reason for the party - which was that it was as a Caribbean themed party. Since I happen to be from the Caribbean, it would immediately lead to interest, follow up questions on the girls part, a shared experience if they're Caribbean or of Caribbean descent, etc. My earlier approaches I really considered as warm ups - just to get the social juices flowing and to see if any of my approaches would "stick". Important point to note - I'm in the beginning stages of a relationship so I'm not looking to get laid, but to keep the skills and do a few pick up reps.


First approach was a lady with a flag (the party encouraged people to wear their flags from the countries they were from) who was with a larger group (looked like a 5-6 set, about 3-4 women and 2 guys). We had a short conversation about my time in her country then I ejected. I figured I could come back to her later if necessary.

Second conversation was a two set. I asked one girl the same question (where you from/where are your representing) but didn't get much interest since they had no interest in the Caribbean, they were just here for the party. I ejected quickly (after about 1 minute)

Third approach was another two set at the bar. Got some great rapport with them, we talked about where they were from, how they were enjoying the party, etc. Again, I ejected after a few minutes.


Fourth approach was a girl who was sporting the same flag that I was. We began talking about our country (she wasn't born there but has visited), living in London, etc. Had green hair and called herself "Green Lantern" (lol!). I saw her through the course of the evening and spoke to her several times BUT never got her contact info (Sloppy!). However, I'm likely to see her around at upcoming events.

Fifth approach was a two set on the dance floor. Good looking, shortish (great for me cause I'm on the short side). I'd consider them both about 7.5. Let's call them E and J. Again, same opener - and got some great rapport. I initially approached E but actually wanted to talk to J. We began talking about where we were from, how the party was going etc. Did some kino on both and they seemed receptive. My dancefloor game is KING so I started dancing with both of them (Caribbean style - can be seen here www.youtube.com/watch?v=ozD8Ib5aPi4).

I told them I was here at the party alone and then E says - "you're hanging out with us!" and adopted me into the group. I later found out that they were with a larger group with a girl celebrating her birthday. While I was dancing with J, there were several guys who came to dance with E, talk with her, etc. Some she danced with, some she didn't. At one point, her birthday friend jumped in as one guy was talking to her and literally started pushing the guy away, shouting at him "She's married! MARRIED". I took that moment to look on E's wedding ring finger and realised shit, she was sporting a wedding ring. Anyway, the drunk friend eventually left and the guys came back to swarming on E. One particular set came in and (predictably) caused trouble. I was still dancing with J and he began talking to her. She began touching his face in an attempt to "burst his bubble" over some inane disagreement they were having. I recognized this for what it was - he's moving into my set and she was somewhat attracted. I decided to shift her in order to break that loop, and took her to the bar for a drink. She insisted on going back to her friend, and the guy was still there. The conversation continued, despite the fact that me and her were dancing. Meanwhile the AMOG's friend was dancing with her friend. I simply shifted her, almost unnoticebly, so that I was now in between her and the AMOG. Success! He eventually disappeared into the night.

The night was coming to an end, and she insisted that she had to leave to catch her train back home. Strangely enough, I felt little to NO sexual chemistry with her, and settled for a kiss on the cheek, and her number. We've already Whatsapped a few times, but the connection wasn't strong and there's little interest in my part to continue that connection. All in all I had fun (which was my goal - NOT to pull) and is a great reference for me with regards to pickup.