Post by Heywood Jablowme on Jun 21, 2018 13:08:01 GMT
"There's this one girl."
These posts are the staple that attracts men to this forum. And it's almost always the same.
"Guy's no matter how much I invest. No matter how much attention I give her. No matter how I dance for her.....She doesn't reciprocate!"
Look man, here it is for all of you now, past, present, and future, there is one thing women hate more than anything else on the planet and that is a needy guy. They may call it different things, because the term is so worn and tired, but it all comes down to neediness.
You need something from her from her so you can feel validated in your pursuit.
You wrangle for attention no matter what the cost and will bug the living shit out of some poor girl just for a little of that attention. They grow suspicious, and aggravated.
You seem like a cool guy with a lot going on in your life. What in the world makes you think you need something from HER to make you feel accomplished? You already fucked her, so that's not it. It doesn't appear to be money. Is it her ability to suck start a Harley?
Nope.
It's because you don't even know what honest the fuck YOU want. So how the fuck do you expect HER to give that to you?
First, ask yourself a question: “Do you really like this girl and want to a thing her? Or do you just want to be physical with no strings booty call stuff?”
Once you figure that shit out, convey it to her in a straight forward manner in 30 words or less. "Look I'd like to see you more, but we both got a lot going on, so if your not on the same page, I'll be just peachy."
There it is. It's simple. If she's not there with you, pick up your Legos and go home. Don't call. Don't text. Don't stalk her social media. Just go back to living the dream.
These posts are the staple that attracts men to this forum. And it's almost always the same.
"Guy's no matter how much I invest. No matter how much attention I give her. No matter how I dance for her.....She doesn't reciprocate!"
Look man, here it is for all of you now, past, present, and future, there is one thing women hate more than anything else on the planet and that is a needy guy. They may call it different things, because the term is so worn and tired, but it all comes down to neediness.
You need something from her from her so you can feel validated in your pursuit.
You wrangle for attention no matter what the cost and will bug the living shit out of some poor girl just for a little of that attention. They grow suspicious, and aggravated.
You seem like a cool guy with a lot going on in your life. What in the world makes you think you need something from HER to make you feel accomplished? You already fucked her, so that's not it. It doesn't appear to be money. Is it her ability to suck start a Harley?
Nope.
It's because you don't even know what honest the fuck YOU want. So how the fuck do you expect HER to give that to you?
First, ask yourself a question: “Do you really like this girl and want to a thing her? Or do you just want to be physical with no strings booty call stuff?”
Once you figure that shit out, convey it to her in a straight forward manner in 30 words or less. "Look I'd like to see you more, but we both got a lot going on, so if your not on the same page, I'll be just peachy."
There it is. It's simple. If she's not there with you, pick up your Legos and go home. Don't call. Don't text. Don't stalk her social media. Just go back to living the dream.
