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Post by kidfromcro on Jun 22, 2018 6:46:03 GMT
hi evryone,i have this current sticking point after i ended seeing my fwb.
we were seeing eachother for 3 months,then ended it.
i wasnt approaching much during that time,and now when i started again i tend to have wrong mentality,
i also read and watch material which might have resulted in certain pressure on myself,but i"m not sure about this one.
before i approached a girl with the intention of meeting her and seeing do i like her,
now i approach with the intention to get a girl. i am aware of having wrong intention,but i kinda forgot how to go about it,logically i know
what"s wrong,but at that moment i kinda get lost in the wrong intention.
should i go and approach someone i dont like to get that feeling back,or approach multiple?
any advise?
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Post by siezectrl on Jun 26, 2018 15:34:45 GMT
I think it might be your mindset. From how I read your post, it seems that you are looking at this as a chore. It's like you have to do this to supplement a lose you have experienced. Partly due to allowing yourself to fall into a neediness role and also, even casual relationships that end have a grieving process that has to be dealt with. You could change your perception to allowing the pick up process to be fun. Many people forget that. Meeting new and interesting women is suppose to be fun and an adventure. You could decide that when you go out you are wanting to meet somebody interesting as well as attractive and focus on that aspect of the interaction. Before you leave the house, ask yourself "who am I going to meet that is going to fascinate me today?" and let the new women you approach answer that question for you. I believe you will be amazed at how you subconscious mind will be moving you towards an answer.
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Post by kidfromcro on Jun 30, 2018 14:43:35 GMT
did something similar,it worked,i ques i expected to have overnight results and to replace her with another one,as soon as i stopped caring it all fell back into place and now i"m into position of having 3 of them wanting me
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