Post by oxotnik on Jul 26, 2018 7:28:54 GMT
starting today my field reports as i feel it woulld be very good for me to look back at my approaches and evaluate as well as see my progress.
here it goes:
today i decided to go to richmond center instead of downtown of vancouver. Yes richmond is a city with 300k people, which is significantly less, but with vanouver being a small city itself i felt like a change of location was really necessary, i was getting sick of the same place and was losing motivation.
Its only a week that im in canada and only 2 months since i started doing my first approaches (some breaks were there bc of travelling). Still adapting to the canadian type of game because girls here are a lot more closed and weireded out by a man approaching them on the street. Anyways, today i did 4 direct approaches (in total there were maybe twice as much but they were irrelevant as they werent an actual pickup and more like a friendly conversation).
My first approch was a blonde from denmark that i caught outside and opened with "excuse me, i was walking behind you and wanted to tell i really like your blonde hair, not many people around have it", conversation with her went well, for about 5-7 mins, however i feel that i should have been leading the conversation more personal rather than talking about Denmark and how im from Russia. Did no teasing in that at all. Couldve asked for the number and shouldve, however i pussied out as i thought the convo wasnt as emotional.
second was another blonde and i opened exact same way as the first. here i tried putting emotion and a little bit of voice into my approach, however the girl was a bit more closed off, but several times hotter. the energy was there for 20 seconds until she told me that she has to go the other way, and i, being unprepared for that line let her go
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third was a 2 set standing flat foot in the mall talking to e.o. Opened with "excuse me, are you guys related in any way, beause u look really alike" , although i did point something about them, i didnt really make my intentions clear with words. I should of said i liked you and decided to come say hi. the girl was really open and social, committing to the conversation and asking questions. its one of those girls that dont fit the regular canadian culture where it feels as though nobody talks to anyone. At times it was as though she was leading the conversation. And i know that thats a dream for all the guys, its not a good thing as she really isnt finding out much about you. these types of girls you need to interrupt and take on the leading role. With her openess i couldve added a bit more spark into our convo, playing one of Style's routines for example. most surprising thing is that the girl was 16!!
i was surprised when i heard that as she looked about 21 and spoke like one too if not older. but since 16 is legal already i did try number closing , however the mistake ive made today just like 2 days ago is that i gave my number to the girl and not took hers. They never text first. OR atleast your impression has to be so good for them to do that.
Last girl was outside and i went a little bit out of my comfort zone and i called her over as she was passing by, without moving a cm. Opened with the honest " i thought u were really cute and decided to say hi", however right away she responded with oh i have a boyfriend. Although now that i think about it, it feels more like a reflective response more than anything, it still caught me off guard and i did not know how to continue the convo afterwards. I knew that those words are jsut some that i need to ignore, but still wasnt prepared for them and couldnt get them out of my head. Let her go after 10 more secs.
Overall i need to remember to keep the energy up and the good vibe which obviously comes with a loud voice. as well as remembering some routines to make the converation different and interesting in my own way
here it goes:
today i decided to go to richmond center instead of downtown of vancouver. Yes richmond is a city with 300k people, which is significantly less, but with vanouver being a small city itself i felt like a change of location was really necessary, i was getting sick of the same place and was losing motivation.
Its only a week that im in canada and only 2 months since i started doing my first approaches (some breaks were there bc of travelling). Still adapting to the canadian type of game because girls here are a lot more closed and weireded out by a man approaching them on the street. Anyways, today i did 4 direct approaches (in total there were maybe twice as much but they were irrelevant as they werent an actual pickup and more like a friendly conversation).
My first approch was a blonde from denmark that i caught outside and opened with "excuse me, i was walking behind you and wanted to tell i really like your blonde hair, not many people around have it", conversation with her went well, for about 5-7 mins, however i feel that i should have been leading the conversation more personal rather than talking about Denmark and how im from Russia. Did no teasing in that at all. Couldve asked for the number and shouldve, however i pussied out as i thought the convo wasnt as emotional.
second was another blonde and i opened exact same way as the first. here i tried putting emotion and a little bit of voice into my approach, however the girl was a bit more closed off, but several times hotter. the energy was there for 20 seconds until she told me that she has to go the other way, and i, being unprepared for that line let her go
.third was a 2 set standing flat foot in the mall talking to e.o. Opened with "excuse me, are you guys related in any way, beause u look really alike" , although i did point something about them, i didnt really make my intentions clear with words. I should of said i liked you and decided to come say hi. the girl was really open and social, committing to the conversation and asking questions. its one of those girls that dont fit the regular canadian culture where it feels as though nobody talks to anyone. At times it was as though she was leading the conversation. And i know that thats a dream for all the guys, its not a good thing as she really isnt finding out much about you. these types of girls you need to interrupt and take on the leading role. With her openess i couldve added a bit more spark into our convo, playing one of Style's routines for example. most surprising thing is that the girl was 16!!
i was surprised when i heard that as she looked about 21 and spoke like one too if not older. but since 16 is legal already i did try number closing , however the mistake ive made today just like 2 days ago is that i gave my number to the girl and not took hers. They never text first. OR atleast your impression has to be so good for them to do that.Last girl was outside and i went a little bit out of my comfort zone and i called her over as she was passing by, without moving a cm. Opened with the honest " i thought u were really cute and decided to say hi", however right away she responded with oh i have a boyfriend. Although now that i think about it, it feels more like a reflective response more than anything, it still caught me off guard and i did not know how to continue the convo afterwards. I knew that those words are jsut some that i need to ignore, but still wasnt prepared for them and couldnt get them out of my head. Let her go after 10 more secs.
Overall i need to remember to keep the energy up and the good vibe which obviously comes with a loud voice. as well as remembering some routines to make the converation different and interesting in my own way
