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Post by downtownace on Aug 15, 2018 21:53:49 GMT
I met a girl on the dating app Coffee Meets Bagel. We went on a date and everything was going well. We were suppose to have a second date (Movie theater) a week later which was today Wednesday. She tells me she rather do Friday (she's only free Wednesday and Fridays after work because she has a kid but wants to be home Wednesday by 9 to get her daughter. FYI I'm 35 she's 25.) I said I'm busy this Friday lets shoot for next week then. I got some info on my oneitis which hurt me so I then I didn't want to wait. I needed a distraction and text her this: - me: Hey, so I was thinking since I have tomorrow free, why don't we get together and do something small. Like fast food and watch daredevil or one of the shows we talked about? That way we can still chill and you can get back home by 9
(I texted her around 9am)
Her: are you inviting me over LOL
(she texted at 4:14 which was too long for our usual interactions)
me: Yeah LOL if you want to come your always welcome
Her: You don't think it's too soon for an invitation to your home ? LOL
(she responds at 5:16pm)
Me: Depends on what your expeditions are LOL I'm just thinking we're going eat and watch TV but if it makes you feel uncomfortable we can wait until next week 
She doesn't respond so this morningg:
me: Good Morning! I hope you didn't take my invitation or text the wrong way. I just didn't want to wait a week to see you and that's the first thing that came to mind. Btw expeditions was suppose to be expectations typo LOL hop you have a good day
Where did I go wrong? Can I still salvage this? |
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Post by downtownace on Aug 15, 2018 22:14:47 GMT
Update!! She just texted LOL 2:59 pm her: not going to lie that does sound great.. I prefer to be a bum a 100x more than getting all fancy LOL but lets save that for a lil later ... btw sorry for not replying earlier.. decided to stay home today and be a bum LOL I'm still in LOL |
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Post by ninjabib on Aug 15, 2018 22:29:19 GMT
That's good, for me personally you seem just a little too eager, maybe hold back slightly. Your excitement is leaping out the screen at me. She may like that though, some girls don't.
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nomadinthenorth
MPUA Forum Newbie
Just started Sarging, any tips will be accepted with open arms.
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Post by nomadinthenorth on Aug 16, 2018 21:34:59 GMT
In my eyes you've fucked it, you acted too needy and you were almost drooling on her lap wanting her to come to you and begging for a meet up, I get it Daredevil is a gooood tv series but you gotta play it like it's almost an inconvenience of sorts thats shes coming over, next time get her to make the moves, if or when you meet up look for subtle body language changes, does she move into you or open her body up to you more, does she grab your belt buckle and whack down your pants in starbucks or does she simply hold eye contact and do that curly hair thing they do when they're giving you puppy dog eyes. Whatever it may be to me body language holds way more power over words. As for this lass... if you truely want her, pull another lass (She has to be about a 7 or else this won't work) and flaunt her on your social media, show her off so to speak, you want your target to see you with other women, then she gets jealous, comes running into your arms and shes giving you a blowie whilst you're barely through the pilot episode of Daredevil. badda bing badda boom. Hope this helps and happy sarging man!
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on Aug 21, 2018 14:05:36 GMT
You left the escape hatch wide open.
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Post by downtownace on Aug 21, 2018 23:09:34 GMT
You left the escape hatch wide open. Right now I don't have too many options so I was afraid of loosing this one. What would you have suggested I do? I could use the feedback |
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Post by N2thevoid on Aug 25, 2018 15:38:42 GMT
You sound like a 15 year old korean girl about to go to her first J pop concert
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