How to handle this texting interaction?

[technojosh]

So I'm at a club over the weekend with a couple of my guy friends and we run into a couple of cool girls at the bar. One of my buddies is chatting it up with a cute blonde girl who I also thought was pretty cute too while I chat it up with her friend (not the one I was into and less attractive, but cool nonetheless). My buddy's interaction with this blondie seems to be going well, but then both the girls decide to go to the dance floor to dance a bit, while my buddy and I stay back at the bar for a bit then head to the dance floor too a few minutes later. 

On the dance floor, the hot blondie dances with another guy or too briefly but also she dances a bit with my friend too. 

What it looks like though is this girl likes the attention from a few guys and dances very briefly with each one, but as each guy (including my friend) tried to get more intimate on the dance floor with the girl, like making out and grinding etc., she backs off and starts dancing with her girlfriends instead. She seems to be just having fun, likes the attention and teases the guys who are into her on the dance floor. 

As I was leaving the club, I started chatting it up with the same girl I was talking too at the beginning. As I'm talking to her, the cute blondie keeps on trying to get my attention by tapping my shoulder and asking me what my name is. I straight up ignore her as she taps me on the shoulder. I act like I don't even notice her as I give my full attention to her friend, the less attractive one. A few minutes pass by again and the cute blondie tries coming up to me for a second time while I talk to her friend instead. She taps my shoulders again to get my attention and this time I also continue to ignore her. 

After a few minutes, I end my conversation with the blondie's friend and then scoot over to the blond girl and chat it up for a few minutes with her. Ended up getting her number and inviting her and her friends to a pool party I was throwing the next day. Maybe I should have closed here and tried to bring her back to my place? I felt semi weird doing that as my buddy was next to me the whole time during this interaction and he had failed with that blond girl earlier in the night. 

We all went home. 

The next day during my pool party this was my text interaction with the blondie:

I send her a pic of me chilling at the pool before my friends get there and say "A great way to start a Saturday, you coming over?".

 
She didn't respond so an hour or so later I send her a pic of my buddy who had been hitting on her before me  the night before and say "This guy."

She responds soon after with,

"Hey Sorry I've been doing laundry and stuff, had a rough morning , are people there?"

I said, "All the people's"

then she says "You're probably getting rained on ". FYI it did start raining on us, so she was right lol. 

then I say "question"

she says "yea?"

I say "It's critical"

she says "okay whats the question ahah"

Then I say "What's your excuse for not coming through to the party?" fuck I shouldn't have sent this text looking back but I was kind of drunk and I wasn't thinking. 

Then she says "I'm confused lol"

I haven't responded since but I'm looking for some direction on how to salvage this. 

Any tips?


Also FYI my buddy who hit on her earlier in the night and also got her number sent her some texts and she never responded. 

[JackZero]

What are you trying to salvage? As far as I can see...you got a girl's number at a club and she didn't go to your pool party during the rain the next day.

[technojosh]

Sept 3, 2018 7:51:51 GMT JackZero said:

What are you trying to salvage? As far as I can see...you got a girl's number at a club and she didn't go to your pool party during the rain the next day.

That is exactly the response I needed. I think I was over fucking thinking the whole thing, as per usual. I get antsy and think way too much in the short term and sweat the small things instead of thinking longer term, not day to day. Cheers man.

[R.C]

Your text wasn't that bad to be honest. Her reply though, was.

It's night game man. Don't hold your breath over phone numbers you get in a club. Go for same night pulls and if that's utterly impossible, consider it done. Text if you want, but don't have any expectations. At all.