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Post by ninjabib on Oct 9, 2018 21:20:48 GMT
Hey all.
I'm from the UK and flying over for 2 weeks. I'm spedning the first week in Florida at YBor and Gainesville for a music festival then heading to NO on the 29th to the 2nd.
Anyone been to NO for Halloween? This is my first time ever. Whats it like? Anything really cool to do there? Are the girls easy and up for it? Never tried to pull an American, best put on my best english accent old chap.
THanks for any advice.
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Post by N2thevoid on Oct 14, 2018 17:20:56 GMT
Orleans for halloween sounds like it'd be a blast.
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Post by ninjabib on Oct 14, 2018 21:08:40 GMT
The videos on youtube look amazing from what i've seen N2. Starting to rebuild and feeling more confident so will go in all guns blazing. After 5 months off i'm going to be rusty but there will be plenty to practice on from the look of it.
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Post by GFRESH2DEF on Oct 14, 2018 21:45:54 GMT
A high volume of girls to approach (which i think you will have), will get you out of that rust very quickly. I myself have never been to New Orleans. But i do know that if you're going to be in the locations where they hold mardi gras at, for Halloween..it will be cold approach pickup heaven. You will probably be like a kid in a candy store, i know i would be. Report some of your findings there..i look forward the reading them.
-G
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Post by ninjabib on Oct 15, 2018 15:41:00 GMT
Yes i am expecting many rejections, more failures than success so to speak, but i feel ready to TRY and get back into it/women. Will be a blast either way.
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Post by N2thevoid on Oct 17, 2018 1:17:26 GMT
Its the successes that will stick with ya:)
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Post by ninjabib on Oct 17, 2018 14:58:06 GMT
Hope so! Haha really looking forward to it and Gfresh i will try to do a journal, i've never done one before so now is a good time to start.
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on Oct 25, 2018 14:52:57 GMT
It's NOLA.
And the event is VoodooFest it's only slightly muted from Mardi Gras.
There are quality girls DTF for sure, but they ain't locals. If you pull a local she wants to pull your wallet.
If she's super hot in that makeup and gold mini skirt, take a good look at 'her' adam's apple. If she's over 6' in size 10 flats, she has a dick.
In the French Quarter if that dark alley with people milling around seems like a good short cut to the next well lit party street, don't take it. They will kill you and eat the body.
If you see a gaggle of hot girls with a couple fat ones mixed in all dressed in similar costume, you sir are in luck, they're bridesmaids, and they're already schwasted.
Partying girls in costume are pretty free spirited and with a toss of beads are more than willing to pop those titties out.
Chat up her more reserved friend running grope blocker by her side.
Pin a dollar to your shirt, hot girls will come out of the shadows to kiss you, and pin another dollar to you [they think it's your birthday].
A favorite hangover meal is Fries with roast beef gravy and fixins' is da bomb!
All & all a blast.
Street scammers are pretty good at what they do, while you're laughing, see if you still have you wallet.
If someone asks you 'I know where you gots 'dem shoes' tell 'em, "On my goddamn feet!"
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Post by N2thevoid on Oct 25, 2018 19:09:12 GMT
It's NOLA. And the event is VoodooFest it's only slightly muted from Mardi Gras. There are quality girls DTF for sure, but they ain't locals. If you pull a local she wants to pull your wallet. If she's super hot in that makeup and gold mini skirt, take a good look at 'her' adam's apple. If she's over 6' in size 10 flats, she has a dick. In the French Quarter if that dark alley with people milling around seems like a good short cut to the next well lit party street, don't take it. They will kill you and eat the body. If you see a gaggle of hot girls with a couple fat ones mixed in all dressed in similar costume, you sir are in luck, they're bridesmaids, and they're already schwasted. Partying girls in costume are pretty free spirited and with a toss of beads are more than willing to pop those titties out. Chat up her more reserved friend running grope blocker by her side. Pin a dollar to your shirt, hot girls will come out of the shadows to kiss you, and pin another dollar to you [they think it's your birthday]. A favorite hangover meal is Fries with roast beef gravy and fixins' is da bomb! All & all a blast. Street scammers are pretty good at what they do, while you're laughing, see if you still have you wallet. If someone asks you 'I know where you gots 'dem shoes' tell 'em, "On my goddamn feet!" Didn’t you have this published in Fodors 2016 Guide to Orleans?
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on Oct 25, 2018 19:16:40 GMT
It's NOLA. And the event is VoodooFest it's only slightly muted from Mardi Gras. There are quality girls DTF for sure, but they ain't locals. If you pull a local she wants to pull your wallet. If she's super hot in that makeup and gold mini skirt, take a good look at 'her' adam's apple. If she's over 6' in size 10 flats, she has a dick. In the French Quarter if that dark alley with people milling around seems like a good short cut to the next well lit party street, don't take it. They will kill you and eat the body. If you see a gaggle of hot girls with a couple fat ones mixed in all dressed in similar costume, you sir are in luck, they're bridesmaids, and they're already schwasted. Partying girls in costume are pretty free spirited and with a toss of beads are more than willing to pop those titties out. Chat up her more reserved friend running grope blocker by her side. Pin a dollar to your shirt, hot girls will come out of the shadows to kiss you, and pin another dollar to you [they think it's your birthday]. A favorite hangover meal is Fries with roast beef gravy and fixins' is da bomb! All & all a blast. Street scammers are pretty good at what they do, while you're laughing, see if you still have you wallet. If someone asks you 'I know where you gots 'dem shoes' tell 'em, "On my goddamn feet!" Didn’t you have this published in Fodors 2016 Guide to Orleans? It's on the pages of shit they don't tell you.
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Post by ninjabib on Oct 26, 2018 12:32:11 GMT
Thanks for the info Heywood.
It's pretty slim pickings at this festival. Most are lesbian feminist vegans with no sense of humour but all the chicks are digging my accent. They like the BBC show Peaky Blinders which is made where I live. NOLA sounds amazing!
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Post by ninjabib on Nov 4, 2018 19:01:33 GMT
Hey so it really wasn't worth doing a journal really but i had a great time overall.
Met plenty and got a few ladies interested but slept with none sadly.Quite a few told me they had a great time and we made out etc but no f-closes. Not sure why but hey ho. Now this might seem poor and normally i'd agree but i've been battling PTSD and depersonalisation/derelization (this is the most horrible thing ever) for the last 18 months since my fall and head injury, been in therapy for 6 so i would consider this something of a success as since splitting up with my LTR 7 months ago i've only slept with 2 other chicks and generally cannot be bothered. This time though i was genuinely meeting and interested in women for the first time in 6 months. Small steps i guess.
A few small things i noticed, again could just be my personal experiences:
USA chicks are generally easier to open and more receptive. Also generally in slightly better shape. USA chicks will also be quicker to walk away in the presence of a male with higher social status, case in point i was talking to this girl at the festival and we were getting on well and then a guy walks by, opens her and she shuts me down fairly cold haha. He had just played to a few thousand people though on a stage. I also noticed this happen with other friends from the UK.
New Orleans though, what a place! It was insane fun.
Heywood you were right, people keep asking me where i got those shoes or telling me how much they liked my sneakers. Whats this all about? A method to distract me and pickpocket?
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on Nov 5, 2018 21:05:38 GMT
Isolate, distract, swindell.
It just is.......NOLA. Glad you had fun.
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Post by ninjabib on Nov 6, 2018 0:04:04 GMT
When they were trying to distract/isolate me i just has flashbacks to your advice and said " i know they are great aint they?" and kept on moving.
A lot of American people i spoke to seemed down on Florida but that 1st week was great too, just too many lesbian femininsts meant very slim pickings. NOLA knocked it out the park though.
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Post by GFRESH2DEF on Nov 6, 2018 2:58:10 GMT
since splitting up with my LTR 7 months ago i've only slept with 2 other chicks and generally cannot be bothered. This time though i was genuinely meeting and interested in women for the first time in 6 months. Small steps i guess. Yeah..i've noticed that after a breakup (or separation) with a chick that you have been in a deep relationship with..that is the time period when your game really fucking sucks. Forget about fucking a girl, you will barely hook any girls that you approach in that time period. And in that time period, i believe that you are still in the mourning phase of your breakup/separation from the girl. That phase can last a few weeks, or even a few months. And yes, you will go through a drought while you're in that phase. It happened to me at the end of this summer, when i stopped hearing from my steady fuck buddy chick that i was seeing since June. After about 1 1/2 months, we picked up where we left off in our fuck buddy relationship. But within that 1 1/2 months period (for nearly 2 straight months) my dick could not hit the broad side of a barn Lol. I was still approaching girls and running my same game as usual in that time period, but nothing was taking. If anything i was kinda repelling girls..it tripped me out because i was on fire for the 1st half of this year, and then suddenly my game with girls went dry cold. I think that when you are in that mourning period (sometimes you are not even aware that you are in a mourning period) your mindset and overall vibe is not even right for picking up girls. But you still have to do it anyway, to get your balls back and get over your oneitis. I believe that i had some oneitis over my fuck buddy chick (Although not often..oneitis still happens to me too. I'm still human guys lol.) when we were on a break from each other. We hooked up again once, after that long break from each other. Since then..it's probably been 4 weeks now, since i've last seen her. I've been gaming as usual since i've last seen her..but it's not until recently when it seemed like my game has returned back to where it was at in the 1st half of this year. It started out with a girl (HB6.6) that i number closed on the southside of town on a Saturday night. I texted her throughout the week, and i finally got her out on a date at a bar that i'm very comfortable gaming my dates at, on the Saturday night 1 week later (1 week after i number closed her). I used some social proof game (just being friendly, and social with some of the people at that bar), and some verbal & physical escalation on her. By the end of the night, she was down to take me home with her. She ordered an uber for the both of us on her phone, and i went home with her, and i fucked her at her place that night. She started a crazy momentum swing for me. The next girl caught me by surprise. I was at home on my laptop, working from home one weekday afternoon that following week..when a girl knocked on my door (it was the girl from my journal..the one from my neighborhood that i pulled at dawn on Father's Day). I took a break from my work, took her upstairs to my room and fucked her. The 3rd girl (about 1 week later) would be the girl that i fucked in a porta potty 2 Saturday nights ago. And the 4th chick that i fucked was the alternative/rock looking chick that i pulled out of the club and back to my house on Halloween night. So after going through some oneitis that was impairing my game for a few months..i'm back on a hot streak again. -G
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