|
|
Post by crimson182 on Apr 17, 2019 4:02:29 GMT
Hey Everyone,
So I decided to stop drinking alcohol for a while. I'm a bit nervous because of how I am going to have the first date. In the past, I used to invite them to meet up at a bar and go for a drink. Now that I don't drink what are your recommendations on a place for going to the first date or should it still be at a bar but I just don't order alcohol? I know some of you don't drink, so I would really appreciate your input. Thank you so much.
|
|
|
|
Post by JackZero on Apr 17, 2019 5:21:50 GMT
1. Invite to where you live for movie
2. Pool Hall
3. Bowling
4. Miniature golf
5. Apple picking (not my idea).
|
|
|
|
Post by pilgrimmeister on Apr 17, 2019 11:49:49 GMT
If she drinks then you can still go a bar, just that she will drink and you can have a soft drink. Done that plenty of times especially if I am driving.
|
|
|
|
Post by Heywood Jablowme on Apr 17, 2019 12:41:35 GMT
5. Apple picking (not my idea). |
|
|
|
Post by crimson182 on Apr 17, 2019 14:50:50 GMT
1. Invite to where you live for movie 2. Pool Hall 3. Bowling 4. Miniature golf 5. Apple picking (not my idea). Thanks so much. Appreciate it! |
|
|
|
Post by crimson182 on Apr 17, 2019 14:51:10 GMT
If she drinks then you can still go a bar, just that she will drink and you can have a soft drink. Done that plenty of times especially if I am driving. Thanks man, agree! |
|
lolpants
MPUA Forum Enthusiast
Posts: 32
|
Post by lolpants on May 8, 2019 15:51:28 GMT
I didn’t drink for 3 years and at the time i had the most sexual encounters with women.
It doesn’t matter that you don’t drink but she will ask why you don’t drink alcohol.
|
|
|
|
Post by N2thevoid on May 8, 2019 22:56:20 GMT
Tell her you’re a sexual threat when drinking
If she then starts ordering drinks the rest will take care of itself
|
|
|
|
Post by curtis72 on May 24, 2019 13:08:42 GMT
1. Invite to where you live for movie2. Pool Hall 3. Bowling 4. Miniature golf 5. Apple picking (not my idea). On a first date? How often is that effective? |
|
|
|
Post by JackZero on May 24, 2019 14:58:27 GMT
1. Invite to where you live for movie2. Pool Hall 3. Bowling 4. Miniature golf 5. Apple picking (not my idea). On a first date? How often is that effective? What I've experienced over the years is that there are three types of girls that will go out on a date with you. 1. The Reluctant Girl This is the girl that will go out with you for reasons other than you. You may look like a good catch on paper. She may like getting a free meal. She doesn't know if she really wants to go out with you but feels obligated to do so. An invite to your house is likely not going to work because in the back of her mind, she really can't see any real potential at the moment. It doesn't mean that you can't change her mind, but her agreeing to come over to where you live is going to feel like you are trying to move too fast. 2. The Girl that Likes You...So Far She sees the potential in you. She thinks you're attractive. You make her smile and laugh. Why not go out with you? She likes what she's seen so far. She will not likely agree to the, "come over and hang out," date. If you frame the invite with a "because", then it will be a lot more effective. The reason could be BECAUSE you would like to split a bottle of wine with her. It could be BECAUSE you want to watch movie with her. It could even be BECAUSE you really enjoy your conversations with her and you just want to spend time with her. Without the "because" it's going to sound like you are inviting her over for sex and she might not be there yet with you. 3. The Girl that Wants You She's already made up her mind. You don't need a BECAUSE to get her to come over. She will show up with her luffa, the alarm on her phone set to wake her up in the morning, and her work clothes. For me, figuring all of this out has made it very effective and it's because I always have a reason to invite a girl over. The reluctant girl won't be thinking that I'm only trying to bang her (even if that is the reason) and it's because I've given her the "because" and it allows her to counter with something else if she's not comfortable with coming over. The girl that likes me so far is more comfortable coming over for the first date because you've given her a slut free reason for being there. If you give the girl that wants you a because statement, it's very likely she will tell you that she's not interested in that once she arrives. |
|
|
|
Post by ekrin987 on Dec 12, 2020 17:44:00 GMT
- couch cushion fort-building slumber party (but tell her she has to sleep on the couch! Your bed is too comfy to give up)
- museums are good (study a little bit on the topic so you can have intelligent conversation about some pieces)
- go to the city dog pound and walk the dogs (this has been my FAVORITE after my place for dinner)
- a walk in the park
- a scenic drive or short road trip to a local landmark or park
- hiking
- 4x4ing
- fishing
- target shooting
- scenic drive.
I personally like dinner at my place then couch cushion fort-building, slumber party.
|
|
