Here's How & Why, You Can Become Abundant With Women Too
May 3, 2019 16:30:01 GMT
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Post by N2thevoid on May 3, 2019 16:30:01 GMT
Goes back to 60yoc's idea of being delusionally optimistic. Always assume interest (unless she's giving clear signs she's not, don't be an idiot).
Limiting beliefs are the most damaging thing to a man.
Reminds me of meeting an ex of mine. Met in person from pof. I was more attracted to her in person, and even after some walking and talking together I'd told myself she wasn't feeling it.
I left that day, gave her a quick hug as she had to go to work so we'd parted at a nearby mall. I knew I'd never see her again.
As a last ditch effort, I had pulled to the side of the road, texted her "So I guess this is the part where we awkwardly stop texting each other".
Within seconds I can see she was texting back. She responded "I knew it!! I knew you weren't attracted to me!"
Had I not reached back with my text we would have never been a couple (though the relationship was shit towards the end lol).
Point being, assume interest. If she's talking to you chances are there is some attraction or curiosity. Don't be afraid to take chances and see where the chips fall.
There's another side to this, however.
If you're feeling like dog shit, the resistance to approaching that girl can feel so strong. When I am at my low points (recently going through a bit of a dip lately), it IS ok to take a time out to focus on YOU.
I m not saying it's an excuse to not approach a cute girl, but do so with the idea that you're doing so to open yourself - whether you get the girl or not is not the goal.
Limiting beliefs are the most damaging thing to a man.
Reminds me of meeting an ex of mine. Met in person from pof. I was more attracted to her in person, and even after some walking and talking together I'd told myself she wasn't feeling it.
I left that day, gave her a quick hug as she had to go to work so we'd parted at a nearby mall. I knew I'd never see her again.
As a last ditch effort, I had pulled to the side of the road, texted her "So I guess this is the part where we awkwardly stop texting each other".
Within seconds I can see she was texting back. She responded "I knew it!! I knew you weren't attracted to me!"
Had I not reached back with my text we would have never been a couple (though the relationship was shit towards the end lol).
Point being, assume interest. If she's talking to you chances are there is some attraction or curiosity. Don't be afraid to take chances and see where the chips fall.
There's another side to this, however.
If you're feeling like dog shit, the resistance to approaching that girl can feel so strong. When I am at my low points (recently going through a bit of a dip lately), it IS ok to take a time out to focus on YOU.
I m not saying it's an excuse to not approach a cute girl, but do so with the idea that you're doing so to open yourself - whether you get the girl or not is not the goal.