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Post by GFRESH2DEF on Apr 19, 2019 23:22:52 GMT
Why Any Guy, Can Become Abundant With Women Too!Any guy on this forum ( whether you are a veteran in the game, or just a beginner), you can become abundant with women too! I repeat..Any guy on this forum (whether you are a veteran in the game, or just a beginner), you can become abundant with women too! I can assure all of you, that these girls are out there for the taking, right now! Most guys in our society are BETA MALE CHODES that can hardly get any girls at all..TRUST ME ON THIS!!! And as for the guys who do slay these girls on a pretty consistent basis (like the "Skilled PUA Veteran Guys" or the "Good Looking Natural Guys").. the BETA MALE CHODES in our society, actually far out-number those guys. So again..there is no competition! So all you really need to do is.. work a little bit harder than those BETA MALE CHODE GUYS, and you will be the guy, who's getting all of the pussy that they should've got. I will back this up, with 2 Facts that you all already know! Fact#1 - Most guys (Probably about 90% of the Guys in your city, or probably higher than that) do not approach girls AT ALL, during the daytime. And even if they wanted to..they don't even have the balls to do it. And for the guys who can approach girls during the daytime..that's probably no more than 5% (Maybe even less than that) of the Guys in your city who can do that. Fact#2 - Most Guys feel more comfortable approaching girls in a nightgame situation (ie..at bars & clubs). At least half of those guys (Maybe more than that) have to be either drinking or drunk, just to approach girls. So given the statistics that i just laid out for you in Fact#1 and Fact#2..THERE IS REALLY NO COMPETITION OUT THERE! THESE GIRLS ARE OUT THERE FOR THE TAKING! 3 Factors In Game, That Will Soon Have You Getting More Ass, Than You Could've Ever Imagined
Factor#1
Learn to get over your approach anxiety, and start ruthlessly approaching women, while they're out during the daytime. Factor#2 Learn how to game while being sober (Can you make more sense to girls, than most of these simple drunk-tards can..HELL YES YOU CAN!!!). Plus gaming sober is sustainable, and far more healthier to your mind and body, than drinking is. You actually spend most of your every day life, sober..so why not learn how to game up girls, while being sober. Factor#3 Combine the other two factors, with going out 3 to 4 days a week, and/or approaching 1 or 2 girls everyday. If you can do that..MY FRIEND, YOU WILL BECOME UNSTOPPABLE!!!!!!! -G
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Post by crimson182 on Apr 20, 2019 0:18:05 GMT
Good post G, appreciate it!
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Post by GFRESH2DEF on Apr 20, 2019 12:55:32 GMT
Good post G, appreciate it! No problem man, thank you.
This Is Why I Always Harp So Much On Approaching!Some people may think i'm crazy, because i specifically harp on approaching so much, when there's so many other elements of an interaction with a girl, in addition to the approach (like the opening line..extending the conversation..reaching the hook point..number closing..leading the girl physically..kiss closing..pulling..LMR..Sex), the full process from open all the way to close. I get all of that, and i'm fully aware of it. I cover the open to full-close process in detail, in my field reports. So if you want to know what those are, and how i check all of those sticking points off..read my field reports. But what i've noticed is..that guys want to know how to do all of that, but they still can't even approach girls with ease (guys want to run, but they are still crawling on the floor, and can barely even stand up on their own 2 feet..i'm using "the baby toddler analogy" Lol). They want to know how to do all of that intermediate to advanced stuff, but they are still struggling with the basics. And they are still paralyzed by their approach anxiety. As you guys probably may already know (and i've mentioned this on this forum before..probably last year), i've probably been through almost every sticking point that most guys will go through in an open to full-close process, in an interaction with any girl. And i have a good and solid knowledge base of experience, in overcoming each and every individual sticking point from open to full-close. But what i've found is that, the one sticking point that i still had tremendous potential for improvement in..was approaching. So when i've gone through just about every sticking point, and found solutions for all of them..this led me back to the very beginning..my very first sticking point..approaching. That's the one sticking point that i found, that still had tremendous room for growth (and it still does). So this is why i harp so much on guys working on perfecting and smoothening out their approaches on girls. Most of you guys are probably going up to the girl, being so far up in your heads, and putting out so much anxious negative energy. And this is exactly why you can't fuck the girl..because you probably fucked it up for yourself on the initial approach. And most guys don't realize this. Another thing that most of you guys probably don't even realize is..if your initial approach is really good (smooth and on point)..the girl can become very attracted to you instantly. And she immediately starts chasing you (ie..asking you questions..qualifying herself to you..and her asking you for your number). I bet alot of you guys didn't know this Lol. I know about it, and some of the veteran guys on this forum know about this. I've banged a few girls, just from my approach making a very good impression and impact on them. Now of course, you can fuck it up with the girl at any point after the approach..but if you approach her in such a boss and very alpha manner..you won't even have to be focusing so much on having to be so awesome at that other stuff that comes after the approach. How easy and natural, is it for you to do all the other stuff (that comes after the approach) with a girl, who is already attracted to you? It becomes very easy (even if you are a beginner). And all of a sudden..you have a conversation with the girl with ease..you extend the conversation with ease..you number close her with ease..kiss close her with ease..bounce her from location to location with ease (ie..the insta-date)..and then you pull her with ease..and the best thing of all..No LMR!!!!! And all of this can come about, from you coming up to the girl, boss as fuck, and very alpha. All of the other stuff after the approach that i mentioned, becomes easier for you all of a sudden..because she became attracted to you (from your smooth..boss..alpha approach), she's chasing you (as opposed to you chasing her), and she's voluntarily being led by you (she's very receptive to you leading her..all because you have established the frame from the approach). So this is why i'm also going to add a 4th factor. Factor#4 Whatever your excuses/limiting beliefs are ("She's way out of my league".."She seems bitchy".."She's walking too fast".."She's standing too far away from me".."She's sitting there peacefully reading a book, so i think that she doesn't want to be bothered".."She's texting someone".."She's on her phone".."I'm too ugly for her".."I'm not good enough".."I'm not educated enough for her".."I'm too out of shape, i'm fat".."I'm a minority".."She probably has a boyfriend".."She's too busy".."She doesn't have time"..She's talking to people".."I'm too busy to approach her".."I'll start approaching once i make alot of money".."I'll start approaching once i get jacked in the gym"..blah..blah..blah..blah..blah), approach that hot girl anyway. Because for the very same reasons that i mentioned before..you never know. You may very well end up fucking her, when you initially may have thought, that it was no way in hell that she would want to have sex with a guy like you. You may very well decide to approach her..And the next thing you know..you're putting her digits into your phone. And the next thing you know..you're taking her out on a date. And the next thing you know..you're bringing her over to your house. And the next thing you know..she's sitting on your bed. And the next thing you know..you're having sex with her. And the next thing you know..she's now your girlfriend. -G
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Post by N2thevoid on Apr 20, 2019 19:34:45 GMT
To become abundant with women, or anything for that matter, you must first become abundant within yourself.
I'll throw a bit of a paradox at you, which pretty much goes for achieving anything in life:
Try without trying.
Chasing after something whether it be money, career, women or success however we measure it becomes ever elusive the more we pursue.
In fact, even if that very thing you'd wanted is handed to you (with little or no effort of your own) it quickly loses its lustre and we feel empty again. Like the addict that in spite of knowing he's ruining himself with his habit, will do anything in chasing the next hit.
One of the reasons I tell people to regulate their social media use is that they're unwittingly engaging in addiction, rewiring their brains (which begin to resemble that of substance abusers). The thrill of ordinary things no longer holds much cache, so the bar has to continually be raised (like the addict who adapts to his/her drug of choice and needs to increase the dosing or mix it with other things to get that original high again).
Our inability to regulate our own impulses both as individuals and societies is killing us, and creating scarcity within.
But I digress, somewhat..
Try without trying means letting go of tomorrow (and yesterday), and being more present focused. After all its the only thing in this world you truly do have control over in this world. This moment, right here.
This is relevant to building abundance because abundance is now, and scarcity is the pining, the chasing, the endless pursuit of "I don't like who I am now, so I will escape this moment for a better future". Well, that future never comes. Like a person standing at the empty train station endlessly waiting for it to show, for hope it will take them somewhere far off and better to where they are now. That my people, is scarcity.
If your objective is to have a woman, ask yourself why it is so important.
Is this symbolic person your salvation from a miserable life?
Do you feel incomplete and that by being in a relationship you will matter, that somehow your value increases as a human being?
If you make women a goal, you are operating out of scarcity. You will often attract the same type of woman, with a different name. Much like an addict who moves onto other drugs to get that same initial high, is still an addict - its just the substance he/she chooses may have slightly altered. Still scarcity, still unconscious, still trapped in the same unconconscious cycle of pain and suffering.
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Post by undecided on Apr 26, 2019 23:23:43 GMT
That was the best post you have written n2thevoid (although i have not read each and every of your 4641 posts). Having read that - i best get going to the gym and get off social media (as your post suggests).
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Post by lolpants on Apr 27, 2019 10:38:46 GMT
That was the best post you have written n2thevoid (although i have not read each and every of your 4641 posts). Having read that - i best get going to the gym and get off social media (as your post suggests). Do you want to go to the gym ? Do you want to get off social media ? I think N2 his intentions are not to make you quit social media or go all out in the gym. He wants you to realize that if you want to be abundant with yourself you have to be what you want to be, not what some other guy/girl is telling you to be. If you like social media..go ahead and enjoy it, but don't do it because everyone else is doing it or you need the 'likes' or 'hearts' to get confirmation and social proof. If you prefer yoga or running over gymming...go ahead...Do it.
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Post by N2thevoid on Apr 27, 2019 19:10:19 GMT
Yea I'm not all about deprivation:
Does it take more strength/resilience/psychological fortitude to abstain from something in spite of its temptation.
Or to simply avoid the situation altogether.
Surrender to what is juxtaposed to avoiding what is (and not growing from it).
Step one to surrender is accountability: Ok, there's an immediate problem in that I am resisting something. Are you doing something to escape the moment? Distraction from acknowledging some deficiency or malady within?
What am I not dealing with? Turning a blind eye to? That which you ignore persists. That's why (and I am by no means any exception) we often go for the same woman with a different name. We aren't learning the lesson, so it repeats in various derivations until we 'get it'. When a relationship implodes, I look I may have gotten myself into a scarce mindset and created resistance within myself: maybe I should have been more up front about a need, maybe the red flags were deal breakers yet I kept forging ahead with this person. How did I get here? The how is important ONLY insofar as backtracking the side trail that led us astray from the main route.
I'm not saying don't do anything. Just be aware of the purpose it serves, and the kind of energy system you're doing it out of. Do you use social media to peer in on ex girlfriends? If so, what need is it meeting for you? Is it helping you move forward in some way or prolonging suffering/inner resistance which the ego thrives on as an fuel source.
Be more conscious, and make better choices. Start noticing where the scarcity is/the 'lack' is in your life recognize it keeps you trapped in a head wind. And then make the decision to let go and make more conscious choices that feed you rather than diminish you on your journey moving forward.
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on May 1, 2019 17:55:04 GMT
G. 1st great post. 2nd. Truth. It really is that simple.
They'd rather hide behind the black curtain of 'OLD' Using apps such as Tinder and Bumble. Where the competition is a fearsome wall of dick 100 deep.
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Post by GFRESH2DEF on May 1, 2019 23:18:52 GMT
G. 1st great post. 2nd. Truth. It really is that simple. They'd rather hide behind the black curtain of 'OLD' Using apps such as Tinder and Bumble. Where the competition is a fearsome wall of dick 100 deep. Haha Thanks Heywood. I feel like this might be my best post. It really needed to be said and highlighted. Most guys these days, are so soft and wussyfied..all you really need to do is, stand out from them a little bit..and girls will view you as lost treasure. I approached 4 girls just this afternoon (doing a bit of daygame), after getting off of the city bus, coming from work. 3 were rejections, and 1 of them i number closed. I was dressed down, not even clean shaven or anything like that. It didn't matter, i approached anyway. I Approached Girl#1 HB8.9 Brunette - Rejection..She was sitting down at a table, in the open square (I could literally read her body language and facial expression. And it read to me as "Oh another one of these guys" Lol). That was probably the shortest interaction of the 4. I Approached Girl#2 HB7.8 Purple Hair - Rejection..She was standing by herself texting, near the outside lounge area of a college campus (It was honestly fun and non-serious vibe in our interaction. My opening line was "Excuse me, i was sent here from the future to say hi to you, and to let you know that i am your future boyfriend". And i told her that i'm into girls with purple hair). One of her parents came to pick her up, and she said she'll leave it up to fate, when we meet again. I probably made her day, and she has a funny story to talk about with her friends I Approached Girl#3 HB 8.7 Curvy Brunette in Shorts and Sneakers - Rejection..I started talking to her at the crosswalk, and walked with her until she reached the parking lot (She said she had a boyfriend when i tried to number close her). She looked a little bit freaked out by the randomness of the approach, even though i was making statements of empathy. But that kind of reaction is to be expected from some girls, when you're cold approaching them. It's a normal response. No need to take it personally. I Approached Girl#4 HB 7.4 Curvy-Thick Red Head Walking Down the Street - Number Close..I stopped her using the "London Stop" if you are familiar with that stop (i basically sprinted passed her, and stopped just a couple of feet right in front of her, to get her to stop). I basically told her that i noticed her red hair blowing so blissfully in the wind, and that it looked to me from afar, like she was ready for the summer. She told me to hit her up, and said that she's down to hangout with me for a drink, maybe one day this weekend. I'm not one of those PUA guys that talks about this shit, but doesn't actually do it himself. I LIVE WHAT I PREACH! And Surprise..Surprise..I Still Get Rejected By Girls Guys..All Of Us Veteran Guys In The Game Still Do! And..i had some approach anxiety this afternoon as well. I even let a few girls that i wanted to approach, pass me by. But i still did some approaches anyway..regardless of how i was feeling. And at the end of the day..it was actually very fun. It brought me back, to the days when i used to do tons of daygame sessions. The truth is..you know those 1 or 2 approaches a day that i always talk about?..that's what that was today. Before work..or After work (usually after work, because i don't want to miss my bus and be late for work), i try to get a few approaches in, every day. Pickup is a part of my daily every day lifestyle, not separate from it. Now guys might be thinking..how can i get any good results from only approaching 1 or 2 girls a day? You will be surprised. Just a few weeks ago..i banged a cute curvy blonde girl (i banged her twice), that i met one morning at my bus stop. I was waiting for my bus, headed for work. That was not a pickup session that i was doing. That was me just going about my daily life, and i just happened to meet a cute girl there (she's also from my neighborhood too), and had a casual conversation with her. And she was the only girl that i approached that morning, and maybe that entire day. And it resulted in 2 back-to-back lays with her. So you see..you can still get laid, just by casually meeting girls out, as you're going about your everyday life. So Again..YOU HAVE NO EXCUSES!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -G
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Post by JackZero on May 1, 2019 23:29:21 GMT
Most guys these days, are so soft and wussyfied..all you really need to do is, stand out from them a little bit..and girls will view you as lost treasure. I just had to quote this because it is so true. Yes, there is some finesse to this to increase your odds but as long as you don't say something stupid then you will do pretty well.
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on May 2, 2019 11:54:44 GMT
I got rejected hard in a chain store this past weekend, buy a pretty blond wearing spangled mom jeans. She said "What is the matter with you?" Scowled and stormed off. LOL
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Post by undecided on May 2, 2019 12:31:01 GMT
That was the best post you have written n2thevoid (although i have not read each and every of your 4641 posts). Having read that - i best get going to the gym and get off social media (as your post suggests). "Do you want to go to the gym ? " Yes i did and I do. - I only tend to do things that I want to do "Do you want to get off social media ?" When it is time to get my ass into the gym - then yes, otherwise I would spend a heap of time on unsocial media which is nearly always time wasted. "I think N2 his intentions are not to make you quit social media or go all out in the gym." All I was saying was that I wanted to get off social media at that particular time because it was time to go to the gym. I have always (well not always but for the majority in my life) gone to the gym - many years before I knew of this site. I was going to the gym because it was time to do so not because somebody on this forum said to !
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on May 2, 2019 14:53:43 GMT
"Do you want to go to the gym ? " Yes i did and I do. - I only tend to do things that I want to do "Do you want to get off social media ?" When it is time to get my ass into the gym - then yes, otherwise I would spend a heap of time on unsocial media which is nearly always time wasted. "I think N2 his intentions are not to make you quit social media or go all out in the gym." All I was saying was that I wanted to get off social media at that particular time because it was time to go to the gym. I have always (well not always but for the majority in my life) gone to the gym - many years before I knew of this site. I was going to the gym because it was time to do so not because somebody on this forum said to ! At the end of the day, are you approaching more real live girls?
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Post by GFRESH2DEF on May 2, 2019 21:03:51 GMT
.."I'll start approaching once i get jacked in the gym".. Ima go out on a limb Heywood, and say that it's probably this excuse, that i listed in Factor#4. -G
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on May 3, 2019 16:14:42 GMT
.."I'll start approaching once i get jacked in the gym".. Ima go out on a limb Heywood, and say that it's probably this excuse, that i listed in Factor#4. -G Nailed it!
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