girls at school

[letsgetit]

I am still in school and I want to approach girls at school. does anyone have any advice on how to do that? I have never talked to these girls but they kinda know who I am. its not the same as talking to a stranger. does anyone have advice for this situation 

[JackZero]

Hmm...what are you really trying to ask? I already know what the answer is. I would rather you point out what your real problem with talking to the girls at your school. You should explain why it's not the same as talking to a stranger and that's actually where your answer is.

[letsgetit]

Aug 31, 2020 19:02:11 GMT JackZero said:

Hmm...what are you really trying to ask? I already know what the answer is. I would rather you point out what your real problem with talking to the girls at your school. You should explain why it's not the same as talking to a stranger and that's actually where your answer is.

I feel like its unnatural. people have cliques and friend groups and stuff. I feel like these girls are out of my league strictly because of how popular they are. I am decently popular but I don't think I'm branded as desirable 

[JackZero]

So what you are saying is that you are worried about how it will appear to others if you go and talk to girls that are viewed as desirable? What you are feeling is what most of us have felt and that's a fear of rejection that will end up in humiliation. You need to get over that because if you have value (decently popular) and are considered attractive then your problem is how you talk to these girls. If I'm right, I bet you are the type of guy that tries to wait for the girl to let you know that she likes you before you show your interest in her. If that's your approach then that is your problem.

Real talk. Most girls want you to show signs of interest first and be able to lead. You don't have to overtly tell them that you're interested, and it's best that you don't, but they need to see something so that they can work with it. If I remember correctly, you said something to the effect that girls will talk to you and then basically lose interest. Just recognize that they are giving you a chance and you blow it because you aren't willing to take the risk of the word getting out that you tried to push the conversation outside of friendly boundaries.

[rei]

the thing with doing approaches in school is, that could earn you a bad reputation. and the thing with school is, they have herd mentality, so if you are shunned by a couple of people, then the whole community shuns you. thats what hapend to me. but if you dont have a reputation to begin with, then it wont matter. i guess it also depends on you as well because if youre already an outcast, and want to date female outcasts, then you probably still have a good chance, but if you want to date a middle of the road female, then your reputation will probably matter

[adhamaff]

just be yourself that's the biggest thing about getting a girlfriend.
Make the convo Interesting compliment her ask questions about herself or how her day is going.
Dress nice women love men who dress nice.
Smell really good but not axe. Adidas makes some nice scented cologne for men.
Stay calm
Have good eye contact while smiling. Man that will do wonders for you.
Be funny this is very important.
Last but not least be confident.

[Wacker]

Have casual conversations with the girls and pay attention to if they give you any IOIs. Maybe throw in a genuine compliment while your talking and see what they do. If they give you iois then great. Try to spend more time with that girl. But first go flirt and interact with strangers. Go to your mall and talk with girls from other schools incase you do mess up and come off as socially awkward… which we all do at the beginning of all this pickup. Mess up your interactions and learn through strangers first. you don’t want to ruin your own reputation and fuck up your whole high school experience.