day 2 rollerskating date

[letsgetit]

so I met this girl at a party and she wanted to meet me at the roller skating rink. right off the bat I wasn't in a super talkative state and her friends were there. I meet up with them and told them a story about how last time I was there I had to beat a dudes ass cuz he was fucking with my little friend. they seemed amused. I was having trouble building rapport with my date so I thought she was losing interest. I decided to stop trying and skated faster and stayed 5 feet in front of her so she had to work to catch/keep up with me. it seemed to work because she skated behind me and gabbed my waist. so I tried playing a game where we picked the nerdiest guy we could find and guess his pickup line. then I told her a story about girls squeezing my ass during a wrestling tournament. fluff talk then we went and sat down (with her friends)... I did the guess a number routine and pushed her away a little bit. we went skating again. after a little I told her I was leaving because I wanted to get something to eat. I went to take off my skates and they all sat next to me and said they were leaving too. as we waled out I asked if she was coming with me, she said sorry and that she was going with her friends. 

at this moment I thought I had blown it but I said ok (didn't try to convince her or anything) and left. on my way home she texted me complaining how I didn't hug her. then she was really flirty over text calling me baby and using a lot of kissy emojis. 

do you think I did what I needed to do and she just wasn't comfortable enough or am I in the friend zone?

[GFRESH2DEF]

No bro, it sounds like you're good. Her complaining that you didn't hug her before you left..all that means is, you weren't just being a total nice guy to her. Which is really not a bad thing. Look at it this way..you gave her a little bit of negative emotional spikes, that she needed, to truly be attracted to you. You might've not done it intentionally..but it was the right move. Because afterall..she did send you flirty text, calling you "baby", with kiss emojis to go along with it. And she did that right after, she complained about you not hugging her before you left. That doesn't sound like a girl that's pissed off or turned off to me lol. The problem with "nice guys" is..they only give the girl good emotions, but no negative emotions (zero negative polarity). Because they're too nice. Girls need to feel good emotions, as well as some negative emotions, for them to get the complete experience..from feeling a range of emotions. That's why things like negs..disqualifyers..takeaways..roll offs..freezeouts..and push/pulls were created. So that those techniques could be used, to supplement that lack of negative polarity in a guy's game. Especially for nice guys, who only have positive polarity to their game. Which you should already know..that is not enough, to truly get a girl turned on by you, nor is it enough to get her chasing you.




All you need to do now is, turn her buying temperature up over text (sexual flirting over text). So that she could be down to fuck you, by the time that she sees you again. So that you won't have to take her out on a bunch of dates, just to try to accomplish the same exact thing. She already opened up the door for you with the flirty text. All you have to do now, is just walk through that door that she opened up for you, and turn the temperature up a bit, and keep it going. Just remember that girls get turned on like a dial nob, and not like a switch. So just busting out the dick pic right now (like alot of dudes do) would be dumb. Rather..work your way up smoothly, and gradually, to the dick pic lol (more subtle sexual flirting through text at first..and gradually work your way up to more overt sexual flirting through text later). I'm not saying to actually send her a dick pic later on (you can do that if you want to..especially if it gets to a point, when she starts asking you questions, about your lower extremities). But you get my point. Lol




-G