Wingman - how to coordinate?

[Lord Charm]

Hello guys!
I'll jump straight to the point.
How does an approach work if I am not alone? I found 2 other colleagues ("friends") who are interested in this subject (PU Artistry). So we are a total of 3 guys.
Basically, we want to practice random approaches.

Now, how do we proceed? Approach only groups of 3 or more girls? The number of girls must be greater or equal to the number of guys?
If a group has less girls, we have to split? Like only 2 of us go and approach?
Each of us talks with only one girl from that group? Or, in each interaction, 2 of us must allow the third one to do his job, and intervene only when he decides to isolate?
Or we rotate and go only in groups of 2 (I am talking about us, guys)?




And most importantly, is it ok for my development to approach with these guys, or should I do it on my own?

Thanks in advance!

[pilgrimmeister]

I have always preferred going solo, and if with others, then target larger groups. Wings are useful to keep the group entertained while you isolate your target. But I always like to approach alone and handle the whole group, before the wings come in when the time is right.

Typically when doing night game, I isolate at the very last possible moment, as do it too early, you can lose the entire group including your target. Often I end back at after parties with a larger group, where a bedroom is never far away. Plus if your target doesn't work out, there are other options.

Try with wings first at entertaining larger groups but keep the group together and when it's nearly time to hit the road, isolate the target, or even as I said, invite the lot round for an after party.

What you don't want to do is have all of your rock up to a smaller set all together.


I would approach alone, and have them come in to support a while later if its a larger group. It shows confidence and will help in the long term.

[siliconmagician]

I've tried using wingmen and they always failed. Either too scared to approach and expect me to do all the hard work of opening and warming the set up or they have bad body language or they say stupid stuff or of they are naturals they overshadow me.

The only wingman that ever actually helped me was believe it or not, my own mother. She was a party animal back in the day and hooked me up with all kinds of hot chicks because she was a real social butterfly and everyone loved her.

[GFRESH2DEF]

Nov 15, 2020 1:30:05 GMT siliconmagician said:

I've tried using wingmen and they always failed. Either too scared to approach and expect me to do all the hard work of opening and warming the set up or they have bad body language or they say stupid stuff or of they are naturals they overshadow me.

I feel you on this one. My best wingmen have been guys that i've just met, on a given night out of gaming. Guys like that have helped me get laid, more than my own guy friends/wingmen have. I know..it's backwards as hell Lol.  



I have one infield story about just that, that's in my journal right now. 



-G

[JackZero]

I personally don't like having wings because I don't like help or the guy that thinks he's helping. At the same time, I like hanging out with friends and having fun. If I'm approaching a few girls while having fun, I'd prefer to warm up the group to bring over to my friends than to have the friends come over and change the vibe that I'm building. Luckily, the guys that I do hang out with do good with women already and we rarely have problems.