Post by kidkazushi on Dec 30, 2020 6:55:01 GMT
To my fellow members of this forum, hello.
I originally start this before I have a business meeting with some people in Asia.
Initially its for a thread on getting the New Year's kiss and tactics that are useful.
But now after the meeting, something else is on my mind.
I messaged a man on LinkedIn last week. I tell him I have potential business opportunity for
his company that could be mutually beneficial.
I had originally been sending a large message dump to multitude of people with no luck, but this time I take the virtual dating approach to it.
My initial message
Hello (his name), and thank's for connecting. I see that you're also connected with (mutual connection).
I have a potential opportunity for (his company) as well as (my company) if you're interested in hearing about it.
Response
Hi (my real name),
Okay sure thanks for reaching out. Would you like to schedule a Zoom call? My schedule is flexible especially our time zone will be either your early morning or my really late hours.
I ask for his email and send him this,
Hello (his name),
Thanks again for connecting with me!
I didn't take the time to get to the more detailed explanation of what we are hoping so for transparencies sake here it is.
Right now, weíre considering a new business line (BLANK) to try and help groups like (his company). We've continuously heard there is a lack of (BLANK) in the market with a primary in lack in (BLANK). We were hoping to hear what problems and pain points you are having if you have the time.
Our main purpose is to find out how we can help groups like yours bridge the gap between (blank) and (blank).
We're hoping to create solutions that would be of value to companies such as (his company).
Here's a link to our company's capabilities and experience in (blank) if you are interested: (our website with capabilities suitable for them)
Is there any chance we can meet next week?
If so what days/times would work for you?
Feel free to forward your calendar!
Here is my calendar: calendar
A few emails later, we have the meeting scheduled for today.
Now at 11:00 PM my time tonight, I see three men from Asia on my monitor staring at me
and my associate through the screen. I was expecting only two and the one I had been in communication with is not present. I break the ice with a brief introduction and don't stick the landing.
I'm interrupted and asked to wait for more members.
My associate who I'm leading, being more experienced than me (15 years or so) jumps in once they've all joined.
I was still trying to do introductions. In hindsight, something they don't have time for.
He see's that now is the time to explain who we are and lay all cards on the table before anything else.
I was originally planning on holding a few in the hand so we don't influence their
responses. Something I had been told was a good idea for first creating the business concept.
Maybe sometimes it is, but not this time.
They respond by opening themselves up to us and we have an intimate conversation about
what they need.They go into great depths with us about what their problems are.
They are excited now because they see us not as a threat or even neutral but somebody who could bring value to their lives if they're willing to scratch our back first be answering our questions.
My associate takes the reins and continues to mention what our experiences were
and how we could be of service to them.
They tell us they need the help now and would like it to come from us.
They need to know more though, that's when I jump in.
I say to them, we have what you're looking for and I've personally seen
to the completion of what you want with my own two hands.
Not the exact words but the concept is the same.
I explain that I have the connections to get them moving tomorrow.
I continue to ask what their problems are and we get to the heart of some central matters.
They give us more potential clients to talk to and we thank for them for their time. over.
The meeting is over and I have what I wanted.
The answers I needed to create the business we envisioned and more connections for the future.
I thought to myself during the meeting, what are the lesson's from this for PUAs.
I call my associate and thank him for taking the initial reins on the meeting.
I then ask my associate "The culture is so different for me, how did you get them to open up?"
He replies "If you just show them you have what they're looking for, I've found people will open up real quick. Where they're from doesn't matter."
He played the cards out fast and effectively and didn't hesitate for a second to spill the beans on the secret concept are working on.
The real tipping point to get them excited came from the email I sent and then it came gushing once my associate took the lead.
I was just the key and the transparency my associate offered was what turned the doorknob.
I'll be thinking about it the whole night.
Please comment and mention your thoughts on how this all plays into social dynamics.
Also that entire meeting, a woman I met at the club over a week ago has been calling.
She's 31 and has kids. I'm 24 with no kids (secrets out, not that anybody cared though).
She looked great the night we met and we made out, but I'm not interested in leading her on to think I want any more from her
How do I let her down easily? We didn't F close and its all a little odd that she's calling.
Original thread (don't worry about it)
I wanted to create an open thread where we can discuss what has worked for us
on securing the New Years kiss.
The common theme for me is and always has been, getting completely shit faced and politely ask the
woman next to me to do me the honors.
I would really like to do this without being intoxicated this time.
Last year,
I was shit faced, I have a bottle of chamapagne and I'm wearing a shirt with a front pocket.
I have discussion with a girl from California next to me andas I'm doing so I grab a cup,
put it in the front pocket of my shirt, and pour champagne into it and offer her the opportunity
to grab it from my shirt.
宜しくお願いします,
Kazushi
I originally start this before I have a business meeting with some people in Asia.
Initially its for a thread on getting the New Year's kiss and tactics that are useful.
But now after the meeting, something else is on my mind.
I messaged a man on LinkedIn last week. I tell him I have potential business opportunity for
his company that could be mutually beneficial.
I had originally been sending a large message dump to multitude of people with no luck, but this time I take the virtual dating approach to it.
My initial message
Hello (his name), and thank's for connecting. I see that you're also connected with (mutual connection).
I have a potential opportunity for (his company) as well as (my company) if you're interested in hearing about it.
Response
Hi (my real name),
Okay sure thanks for reaching out. Would you like to schedule a Zoom call? My schedule is flexible especially our time zone will be either your early morning or my really late hours.
I ask for his email and send him this,
Hello (his name),
Thanks again for connecting with me!
I didn't take the time to get to the more detailed explanation of what we are hoping so for transparencies sake here it is.
Right now, weíre considering a new business line (BLANK) to try and help groups like (his company). We've continuously heard there is a lack of (BLANK) in the market with a primary in lack in (BLANK). We were hoping to hear what problems and pain points you are having if you have the time.
Our main purpose is to find out how we can help groups like yours bridge the gap between (blank) and (blank).
We're hoping to create solutions that would be of value to companies such as (his company).
Here's a link to our company's capabilities and experience in (blank) if you are interested: (our website with capabilities suitable for them)
Is there any chance we can meet next week?
If so what days/times would work for you?
Feel free to forward your calendar!
Here is my calendar: calendar
A few emails later, we have the meeting scheduled for today.
Now at 11:00 PM my time tonight, I see three men from Asia on my monitor staring at me
and my associate through the screen. I was expecting only two and the one I had been in communication with is not present. I break the ice with a brief introduction and don't stick the landing.
I'm interrupted and asked to wait for more members.
My associate who I'm leading, being more experienced than me (15 years or so) jumps in once they've all joined.
I was still trying to do introductions. In hindsight, something they don't have time for.
He see's that now is the time to explain who we are and lay all cards on the table before anything else.
I was originally planning on holding a few in the hand so we don't influence their
responses. Something I had been told was a good idea for first creating the business concept.
Maybe sometimes it is, but not this time.
They respond by opening themselves up to us and we have an intimate conversation about
what they need.They go into great depths with us about what their problems are.
They are excited now because they see us not as a threat or even neutral but somebody who could bring value to their lives if they're willing to scratch our back first be answering our questions.
My associate takes the reins and continues to mention what our experiences were
and how we could be of service to them.
They tell us they need the help now and would like it to come from us.
They need to know more though, that's when I jump in.
I say to them, we have what you're looking for and I've personally seen
to the completion of what you want with my own two hands.
Not the exact words but the concept is the same.
I explain that I have the connections to get them moving tomorrow.
I continue to ask what their problems are and we get to the heart of some central matters.
They give us more potential clients to talk to and we thank for them for their time. over.
The meeting is over and I have what I wanted.
The answers I needed to create the business we envisioned and more connections for the future.
I thought to myself during the meeting, what are the lesson's from this for PUAs.
I call my associate and thank him for taking the initial reins on the meeting.
I then ask my associate "The culture is so different for me, how did you get them to open up?"
He replies "If you just show them you have what they're looking for, I've found people will open up real quick. Where they're from doesn't matter."
He played the cards out fast and effectively and didn't hesitate for a second to spill the beans on the secret concept are working on.
The real tipping point to get them excited came from the email I sent and then it came gushing once my associate took the lead.
I was just the key and the transparency my associate offered was what turned the doorknob.
I'll be thinking about it the whole night.
Please comment and mention your thoughts on how this all plays into social dynamics.
Also that entire meeting, a woman I met at the club over a week ago has been calling.
She's 31 and has kids. I'm 24 with no kids (secrets out, not that anybody cared though).
She looked great the night we met and we made out, but I'm not interested in leading her on to think I want any more from her
How do I let her down easily? We didn't F close and its all a little odd that she's calling.
Original thread (don't worry about it)
I wanted to create an open thread where we can discuss what has worked for us
on securing the New Years kiss.
The common theme for me is and always has been, getting completely shit faced and politely ask the
woman next to me to do me the honors.
I would really like to do this without being intoxicated this time.
Last year,
I was shit faced, I have a bottle of chamapagne and I'm wearing a shirt with a front pocket.
I have discussion with a girl from California next to me andas I'm doing so I grab a cup,
put it in the front pocket of my shirt, and pour champagne into it and offer her the opportunity
to grab it from my shirt.
宜しくお願いします,
Kazushi