Post by kidkazushi on Jan 3, 2021 11:01:04 GMT
Gentleman,
It’s 4:00 AM central time.
This is where I’m at.
I’m quitting caffeine.
The lack of it is going to damage my energy levels but it’s going to help me not to overanalyze things and not react based on emotions. I had a serious problem with it. It’ll be a gradual process returning to normal.
I also want to do another thing
HAVE THE SAME LEVEL OF CONFIDENCE IN LIFE AS I DO WHEN I’VE BEEN DRINKING HEAVILY.
Here’s the honest truth about me.
Not to brag, but I’m an extremely interesting guy.
I can dance
I can sing
I can play instruments
I practice martial arts
I’m intelligent
I’ve travelled the world
And on top of all that, I’m humorous.
It sounds like I’m bragging, but it’s the honest to God truth.
I can talk to people easily, even women when I know it’s a completely non-romantic situation. But when I talk to women in a possibly romantic situation, it’s different. I go down from a level ten in charisma, to a level two and I choke. Especially when I really like them. The less I care the better.
A lot of this comes from the low self esteem I had growing up.
My brother constantly belittled me and made me feel worthless. He hit me twice in the face which required surgery. I now have two scars on my lip that made me feel like I looked like the joker in The Dark Knight. For years as a teenager, I felt my good looks were ruined by my brother. I felt my self worth was completely shattered by him.
One thing that has always helped me out is alcohol.
I go from a zero, to the stud with all the qualities I mentioned earlier.
Earlier tonight, I was with two girls. I left because I felt I was going nowhere (maybe wisdom, or maybe crippling doubt). I leave that place, and I meet some friends at a club. I’m failing with numerous girls and I feel pressured. It takes awhile but the alcohol helps me move and I remember the things I learned reading Neil Strauss.
Next thing you know, I’m over that fear of rejection. I walk up to a guy and compliment his shirt and we make conversation looking over the club.
I say “do you dance my friend?”
He says “no”
I reply “I’ll show you”
I then do the base step for NY style salsa as his girlfriend approaches. I show him it with her as my partner. Then next thing you know, I have her attractive 6’-5” tall friend around me letting me show her two friends the base step. I’m now talking to a girl who’s hot and 6’-5” (I’m 5’-8”).
She says “a lot of people are afraid to talk to me because how tall I am.” I say something along the lines
“You’re just another person to me. Who cares. It might be racist to not to approach you because you’re tall.”
I brush it off and we salsa and grind. Humor is the best seduction my friends. Also, nobody is unapproachable if you just show that you’re charismatic and DHV.
ALSO, LEARN TO DANCE.
It’s going well, I’m dancing with her and she is genuinely feeling the charm. I’m just being my true self. Funny, intelligent, and confident ( and 5’-8”, I would fix that if I could). All my friends are amazed with my work with her. A few of the taller ones had been wanting to talk with her. She goes to the dance floor for a moment to meet with a friend. While she’s doing so, I’m talking to the bartender. I mention the bartenders dimples and two minutes later I get her number on somebody else’s receipt and the man next to me buys me a drink out of respect for the number close.
I walk out of the bar after a number close with the bartender and a Snapchat close with the taller girl (I prefer Snapchat because it’s fun and light. Screams no commitment and all the fun).
I walk up to a guy as we leave and ask “do you like apples?”
He says “ya?”
Then I say “I got the bartenders number. How do you like them apples!?”
He then hugs me and says he’s “jealous”.
Apparently, a few people had been wanting her number for awhile.
I think I’ll see the taller one again. Turns out the girlfriend of the guy I broke the ice with was somebody I met over a year ago. We discussed business at a coffee shop after I had began talking with a few other gentlemen.
We enjoyed a good laugh about it and I say “talk to your friend about me”.
She asks “you’re a coder?” She remembered me and can see how ambitious of a person I am. A great way to DHV.
I reply “yes I am”
She says “I’ll see what I can do”
At 3:00 AM, tall girl adds me back. I text her a website link talking about the sexual nature between our two signs. I had correctly guess her zodiac sign earlier. However, she’s without a doubt in bed.
The bartender, I text at 2:47 AM and say
“(My real name)
Remember the name”
Second text
“Also, come smoke a bowl.”
I don’t really smoke pot. She had said “we can hangout, but not tonight” at the bar when she gave me her number. It was getting late and she probably didn’t want to go home with a customer that night. I had just decided to go for it anyway. Maybe a bad idea, let me know.
She had also seen me with tall girl. A good way to DHV? You decide that for me in the comments.
Haha maybe I’ll see her another day.
I have one question after all of this though.
How can I do this without the alcohol???
I wanna be that same person with the same amount of confidence.
I read reminders to myself to try and keep the mentality but it’s just not the same.
I know I’m that same guy, but how can I bring him out?
What do you guys do?
Best regards,
Kazushi
It’s 4:00 AM central time.
This is where I’m at.
I’m quitting caffeine.
The lack of it is going to damage my energy levels but it’s going to help me not to overanalyze things and not react based on emotions. I had a serious problem with it. It’ll be a gradual process returning to normal.
I also want to do another thing
HAVE THE SAME LEVEL OF CONFIDENCE IN LIFE AS I DO WHEN I’VE BEEN DRINKING HEAVILY.
Here’s the honest truth about me.
Not to brag, but I’m an extremely interesting guy.
I can dance
I can sing
I can play instruments
I practice martial arts
I’m intelligent
I’ve travelled the world
And on top of all that, I’m humorous.
It sounds like I’m bragging, but it’s the honest to God truth.
I can talk to people easily, even women when I know it’s a completely non-romantic situation. But when I talk to women in a possibly romantic situation, it’s different. I go down from a level ten in charisma, to a level two and I choke. Especially when I really like them. The less I care the better.
A lot of this comes from the low self esteem I had growing up.
My brother constantly belittled me and made me feel worthless. He hit me twice in the face which required surgery. I now have two scars on my lip that made me feel like I looked like the joker in The Dark Knight. For years as a teenager, I felt my good looks were ruined by my brother. I felt my self worth was completely shattered by him.
One thing that has always helped me out is alcohol.
I go from a zero, to the stud with all the qualities I mentioned earlier.
Earlier tonight, I was with two girls. I left because I felt I was going nowhere (maybe wisdom, or maybe crippling doubt). I leave that place, and I meet some friends at a club. I’m failing with numerous girls and I feel pressured. It takes awhile but the alcohol helps me move and I remember the things I learned reading Neil Strauss.
Next thing you know, I’m over that fear of rejection. I walk up to a guy and compliment his shirt and we make conversation looking over the club.
I say “do you dance my friend?”
He says “no”
I reply “I’ll show you”
I then do the base step for NY style salsa as his girlfriend approaches. I show him it with her as my partner. Then next thing you know, I have her attractive 6’-5” tall friend around me letting me show her two friends the base step. I’m now talking to a girl who’s hot and 6’-5” (I’m 5’-8”).
She says “a lot of people are afraid to talk to me because how tall I am.” I say something along the lines
“You’re just another person to me. Who cares. It might be racist to not to approach you because you’re tall.”
I brush it off and we salsa and grind. Humor is the best seduction my friends. Also, nobody is unapproachable if you just show that you’re charismatic and DHV.
ALSO, LEARN TO DANCE.
It’s going well, I’m dancing with her and she is genuinely feeling the charm. I’m just being my true self. Funny, intelligent, and confident ( and 5’-8”, I would fix that if I could). All my friends are amazed with my work with her. A few of the taller ones had been wanting to talk with her. She goes to the dance floor for a moment to meet with a friend. While she’s doing so, I’m talking to the bartender. I mention the bartenders dimples and two minutes later I get her number on somebody else’s receipt and the man next to me buys me a drink out of respect for the number close.
I walk out of the bar after a number close with the bartender and a Snapchat close with the taller girl (I prefer Snapchat because it’s fun and light. Screams no commitment and all the fun).
I walk up to a guy as we leave and ask “do you like apples?”
He says “ya?”
Then I say “I got the bartenders number. How do you like them apples!?”
He then hugs me and says he’s “jealous”.
Apparently, a few people had been wanting her number for awhile.
I think I’ll see the taller one again. Turns out the girlfriend of the guy I broke the ice with was somebody I met over a year ago. We discussed business at a coffee shop after I had began talking with a few other gentlemen.
We enjoyed a good laugh about it and I say “talk to your friend about me”.
She asks “you’re a coder?” She remembered me and can see how ambitious of a person I am. A great way to DHV.
I reply “yes I am”
She says “I’ll see what I can do”
At 3:00 AM, tall girl adds me back. I text her a website link talking about the sexual nature between our two signs. I had correctly guess her zodiac sign earlier. However, she’s without a doubt in bed.
The bartender, I text at 2:47 AM and say
“(My real name)
Remember the name”
Second text
“Also, come smoke a bowl.”
I don’t really smoke pot. She had said “we can hangout, but not tonight” at the bar when she gave me her number. It was getting late and she probably didn’t want to go home with a customer that night. I had just decided to go for it anyway. Maybe a bad idea, let me know.
She had also seen me with tall girl. A good way to DHV? You decide that for me in the comments.
Haha maybe I’ll see her another day.
I have one question after all of this though.
How can I do this without the alcohol???
I wanna be that same person with the same amount of confidence.
I read reminders to myself to try and keep the mentality but it’s just not the same.
I know I’m that same guy, but how can I bring him out?
What do you guys do?
Best regards,
Kazushi
