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Post by maxfactor112 on May 30, 2021 16:48:19 GMT
Well, here is my first official field report on here. If I do say so myself, I think I did pretty well in spite of the fact that its been a while since I've done some game. I hope this comes out well:
I began the day by walking outside my apartment and down the street. Manage to say hi to a couple of people walking by on the sidewalk, just to get into the proper social mindset. Needless to say, it definitely pays off. I see a guy with a boa constrictor snake on the college campus and talk with him about it for a couple of minutes. Make an attempt to open a set right next to him talking about it but they were somewhat dismissive. Moving on, I briefly engage a two-set on the dock of the lake, telling them how cute I think they are. Would've gone further but they were in the middle of an important conversation so I moved on yet again. Approached a HB7 sitting down outside of a Walgreens and again told her how cute I thought she was. We chatted for a little bit and was a bit sarcastic and playful with her. While she was flattered by the conversation, she had to get back to work as her break was over. The next set I approach is a HB10 sitting down right on the grass of the Kohl Center stadium. I figured I had nothing left to lose so I went in, gave her the how cute she was opener and managed to transition quite well. She was definitely enjoying my company and we chatted a bit about our backgrounds and even tried to have her guess a number between one and 50 which she failed very miserably. Nevertheless, she was still fun to talk to so we end up exchanging numbers. I will definitely see what happens with this one as she shows some potential promise. Went and opened a few more sets afterward and while they didn't go anywhere, I am very proud of myself for really putting myself out there and getting into the laidback mindset. While I didn't expect to get a number close from a HB10 blonde, I am still grateful that I did. The key is, that when you go out, wheather its day game or night game, you should never be outcome dependent, as it will just keep you from having fun and enjoying yourself when you're out and about. Anyway, I hope this is a decent report because it is my first after all. I hope to get better with these as time goes by. Let me know what the rest of you think.
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Post by GFRESH2DEF on May 30, 2021 19:04:33 GMT
Great Field Report OP! I like how you had the mindset of, total social freedom! Because that's how you should feel when you go out to do daygame or nightgame. As a matter of fact..it's necessary! Because had you gone out to game, being all in your head, and outcome dependent..i don't think that you would've number closed that HB10 Blonde Chick. Why??..because your outcome dependence (being results oriented), probably would've given you the wrong vibe to begin with..which ironically would've messed up your results anyway. So it's all about having fun out there guys..with no pressure (take the pressure off of yourselves, from needing a result right away). Something that i do similarly to this..i call it "the warm-up half" (and sometimes it's a little bit more than half). I talk about me doing this, in about one-third of my infield stories (i mention this, in my field reports..lay reports..and journal reports). Mostly my nightgame sessions. So what it basically is..is i just self-amuse (i entertain myself) for my 1st half of my daygame or nightgame session. And what that does for me is..it allows me to take the pressure off of myself, from having to close any girl right away (However..i will still close, if i see that the opportunity is there, for me to do so). So for the 1st half of the day or night..i'm just amusing myself, having fun, and getting into a social state/vibe/mood. I'm also talking to everybody, i'm not just talking to girls only (I'm being social with everybody, at these venues). And i'm not worried about closing any girl at all, during this time period (during the 1st half of the day or night, that i'm out gaming). My only goal, during this time period..is to keep on approaching. If anything.."continuing to approach girls", will be the only thing that i'm outcome dependent about, during this time period. That's non-negotiable! But even when i approach these girls..i'm still just amusing myself. And it doesn't matter how she acts towards me, when i approach her (whether it be negative or positive)..i'm still going to run my game, self-amuse, and i don't need to get a result out of her (i don't need anything from her)..it's about me, not about her. And although i'm not outcome dependent, and i'm self-amusing..i'm also still using, some "sexual intent" in my sets, during this time period. And from there..my approach after approach..will just keep building up social and sexual momentum for me. And my years of game skills and experience, will just take care of itself..so i'm not worried about that either. And the 2nd half..is when i start getting serious. And during the 2nd half, is when i will have a little bit more outcome dependence (which is just me having more of a closer's mentality, during the 2nd half). And that's when i will do things like..kiss closes, number closes, and pull attempts. So again..i can relate to what you did during your daygame session..because i do something similar during my sessions (especially when i do nightgame). I look forward, to seeing your update on the HB10 blonde chick.  -G |
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Post by maxfactor112 on May 31, 2021 5:54:05 GMT
Great Field Report OP! I like how you had the mindset of, total social freedom! Because that's how you should feel when you go out to do daygame or nightgame. As a matter of fact..it's necessary! Because had you gone out to game, being all in your head, and outcome dependent..i don't think that you would've number closed that HB10 Blonde Chick. Why??..because your outcome dependence (being results oriented), probably would've given you the wrong vibe to begin with..which ironically would've messed up your results anyway. So it's all about having fun out there guys..with no pressure (take the pressure off of yourselves, from needing a result right away). Something that i do similarly to this..i call it "the warm-up half" (and sometimes it's a little bit more than half). I talk about me doing this, in about one-third of my infield stories (i mention this, in my field reports..lay reports..and journal reports). Mostly my nightgame sessions. So what it basically is..is i just self-amuse (i entertain myself) for my 1st half of my daygame or nightgame session. And what that does for me is..it allows me to take the pressure off of myself, from having to close any girl right away (However..i will still close, if i see that the opportunity is there, for me to do so). So for the 1st half of the day or night..i'm just amusing myself, having fun, and getting into a social state/vibe/mood. I'm also talking to everybody, i'm not just talking to girls only (I'm being social with everybody, at these venues). And i'm not worried about closing any girl at all, during this time period (during the 1st half of the day or night, that i'm out gaming). My only goal, during this time period..is to keep on approaching. If anything.."continuing to approach girls", will be the only thing that i'm outcome dependent about, during this time period. That's non-negotiable! But even when i approach these girls..i'm still just amusing myself. And it doesn't matter how she acts towards me, when i approach her (whether it be negative or positive)..i'm still going to run my game, self-amuse, and i don't need to get a result out of her (i don't need anything from her)..it's about me, not about her. And although i'm not outcome dependent, and i'm self-amusing..i'm also still using, some "sexual intent" in my sets, during this time period. And from there..my approach after approach..will just keep building up social and sexual momentum for me. And my years of game skills and experience, will just take care of itself..so i'm not worried about that either. And the 2nd half..is when i start getting serious. And during the 2nd half, is when i will have a little bit more outcome dependence (which is just me having more of a closer's mentality, during the 2nd half). And that's when i will do things like..kiss closes, number closes, and pull attempts. Thanks man, I really appreciate the feed back. When I was doing this stuff in the early days just starting out, I actually did have that outcome dependent mindset and as a result, it would totally ruin my night. There would be some nights when I would go out that I'd have fantastic results and then there would be nights where I went out and feel frustrated. But all that has changed now. I think the smart way to work game, wheather it be day game or night game, is when you're in a relaxed state of mind. The more you feel that way, the more it will come so naturally to you. So again..i can relate to what you did during your daygame session..because i do something similar during my sessions (especially when i do nightgame). I look forward, to seeing your update on the HB10 blonde chick. -G Yeah, truth be told, I'm still in shock as to how well I did number closing her. very rarely have I ever gotten numbers doing day game but maybe that will start to change, so who knows? I"ll probably be getting in contact with her on Tuesday since I number closed her on Saturday so we'll see what happens. She seemed very interested and happy when I talked to her so who knows what will happen? Wheather it works out or not, I'm still going to be getting out there and practicing because I believe I can continue to do better and better at this. At the same time though, I don't want it to take over my whole life as I do need to have a sense of balance. |
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Post by maxfactor112 on Jun 5, 2021 18:51:35 GMT
Well, it looks like the HB 10 blonde chick has turned out to be a flake. Oh well, back to the drawing board I guess. I"m still going to keep at it because I know I have the potential to get better at this. Hey, you can't win em all, right?
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Post by Wacker on Jun 7, 2021 12:38:31 GMT
Well, it looks like the HB 10 blonde chick has turned out to be a flake. Oh well, back to the drawing board I guess. I"m still going to keep at it because I know I have the potential to get better at this. Hey, you can't win em all, right? Did you break the touch barrier during your interaction? It is huge to involve some sort of kino during day/night game. Especially day game. It creates that man to woman interaction. |
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Post by maxfactor112 on Jun 8, 2021 1:18:43 GMT
Now that I think about it, probably not. Something to remember for next time though.
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Post by Wacker on Jun 8, 2021 14:56:52 GMT
Now that I think about it, probably not. Something to remember for next time though. How was your eye contact? Theres this thing called soul gazing. Its where you look into her left eye and match your breathing with hers. It can be super powerful. Another thing you can do is dilate your pupils while looking into her eyes. All you have to do is think of something sexual and your eyes will have that bedroom effect. Another thing... If you find it uncomfortable to hold eye contact. Look into your own eyes while you brush your teeth. After a couple weeks you wont feel uncomfortable anymore. |
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Post by maxfactor112 on Jun 9, 2021 6:15:34 GMT
Thats actually some real good advice. I"ll make sure to remember all of that when I"m doing daygame/night game next time around. Thanks
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Post by rokky90 on May 9, 2022 1:52:42 GMT
I really like what G said about not feeling the outcome dependence.
It chimes with my own experiences organically.
If you are having a good night with friends, those are very often the nights you score yourself a cracker (HB8+).
Because you just have a try and if it doesn't work out, you'll go back to having fun with your friends.
I'm an engineer and I work with Machine Learning sometimes. Those models, for example, neural networks, are trained using the desired outcome. For this reason, many engineers, including myself, are tending to think more outcome-based as time goes on. We need to catch ourselves - the hack is to not be outcome-based at the moment you are 'sarging'.
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