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Post by maxfactor112 on Jun 6, 2021 18:43:50 GMT
First time I've been out at night in a long time and all I have to say is that I"m amazed I still have the potential. The night began with me giving high fives to random people(women included), not so much to open them but to get into the best state of mind for what lay ahead. First couple of sets I did, I did without hesitation. Did the high five opener, some were receptive, others didn't seem adventurous enough(some claiming they still had to be fully vaccinated) but the whole point was to get myself talking to people and putting myself in the best state of mind. Later on, at one of the college venues, went around the room, dancing up a storm and there's this girl who just can't stop hitting on me. I of course, play very hard to get because if there's one thing I've learned, especially from Mystery, is that you want to get the girl chasing you, not the other way around. I asked her friends if they let her out of her cage just for this night and they said "we sure did. we keep the cage up in our dorm". So I get her dancing with me, spin her around and clearly leave her wanting more. opened a four set and did a best friends routine on all of them. they seemed very receptive and would've stayed longer but quickly ran out of material. Later, opened another four set outside one of the other college bars and had quite a good rapport with em. One of them asked me to show my moves to em but I said "No" and the girl asked "why not?" and I said "because you want me to". all in all, while I got no numbers last night, I"m still proud of myself for taking the initiative and giving myself some extra encouragement. Yes, you'll come across those sets that are a tad bit standoffish but thats the risk you have to take. Most people when they're out and about at night, they're not as mean as you might think. It also proves that by starting over in doing game, I feel like i'm in a great position to do even better as time goes on. Anyway, thats my field report from last night. Feel free to point out some things I could have done better and what I did right. I"m eager for the feedback, no matter how harsh it might sound.
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Post by Lord Charm on Jun 6, 2021 21:25:35 GMT
they seemed very receptive and would've stayed longer but quickly ran out of material. I don't know if what I do is right, I don't have so much experience, but I don't necessarily exit when I have a 'blank' in my brain (if those specific girls seem to enjoy my company). I have to mention that I don't use any material, I just start a conversation about anything that sparks my interest right then and there. And when the subject dies, most of the time I keep the silence and eye contact, and it doesn't last more than 5-10 seconds until the girls start another topic (if I have no other idea). From there it is easy to continue, because it is also a sign that she is interested (I think). Also you could buy more time by throwing a light and funny compliment (related to something she is wearing, her hair, or anything) and also tease her with it. I am using "negs" on something I observe about her during the conversation. Just pay attention and be present when she is speaking. Some of her own words will come naturally to you later in the conversation and you can use them to tease her. She will also see that you paid attention and she will really like it. (This works best for me. A lot of my jokes are created in the moment and they spark a hell of a laugh just because girls see that I paid attention to them). Anyway, it seems like you had fun. And that "because you want me to" line was smooth  |
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Post by maxfactor112 on Jun 7, 2021 2:20:51 GMT
they seemed very receptive and would've stayed longer but quickly ran out of material. I don't know if what I do is right, I don't have so much experience, but I don't necessarily exit when I have a 'blank' in my brain (if those specific girls seem to enjoy my company). I have to mention that I don't use any material, I just start a conversation about anything that sparks my interest right then and there. And when the subject dies, most of the time I keep the silence and eye contact, and it doesn't last more than 5-10 seconds until the girls start another topic (if I have no other idea). From there it is easy to continue, because it is also a sign that she is interested (I think). Also you could buy more time by throwing a light and funny compliment (related to something she is wearing, her hair, or anything) and also tease her with it. I am using "negs" on something I observe about her during the conversation. Just pay attention and be present when she is speaking. Some of her own words will come naturally to you later in the conversation and you can use them to tease her. She will also see that you paid attention and she will really like it. (This works best for me. A lot of my jokes are created in the moment and they spark a hell of a laugh just because girls see that I paid attention to them). Anyway, it seems like you had fun. And that "because you want me to" line was smooth |
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Post by maxfactor112 on Jun 7, 2021 2:27:56 GMT
Thanks Lord Charm. Yeah, I thought so too. I actually got that line from an episode of Cheers where Sam Malone had all those women around him pleading with him to do something bad and he said "No" and they asked "Why Not?" and he said "Because you want me to". That was definitely me playing hard to get last night. Its something I"m gonna continue to do because it has great potential and I may add in my own material with inspiration. And yes, I did have a lot of fun. Sure I ran into a couple of rough sets, but the truth of the matter is, they don't scare me anymore. had one woman who was acting like a total biatch but fortunately, her two friends did their very best to put her in her place because they thought I was fun and outgoing. Regardless though, I didn't let it get to me. In the past, something like that would have ruined my night but I've come to learn that even the ones who are good with women experience that quite a lot and therefore, I'm no exception to the rule.
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