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Post by maxfactor112 on Jun 13, 2021 20:34:25 GMT
Went out last night again in my hometown and things were pretty slow early in the evening but they picked up by the time it got darker out. Did my usual vibe of high fives and spreading the love each spot I went to. While standing in line to get into one of the hot college spots, opened an amazing 3 set and managed to keep them interested for a good amount of time. Did the best friends routine, then DHV'd myself to them about my big bike ride the previous day(yes I really did go on a long bike ride on Friday, not making it up) and told them that I work in the music industry(also not making that up either). Got inside the bar and opened a two set over the shoulder at one of the booths. Worked a little bit of kino escalation and even did the best friends test on em. While I didn't do any number or kiss closes, I feel like I continue to become more and more confident of myself as I continue to do this. Nevertheless, while I'm getting good, I know I have the opportunity to do even better. I have a feeling that will happen a lot more sooner than I think. Anyway, as always, let me know what you all think.
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Post by JackZero on Jun 14, 2021 0:16:09 GMT
Great job at putting yourself and even other people in a positive attitude. Here's what I'm worried about for you from your progress so far. When you don't follow through with an actual attempt to get a girl whether it be direct or indirect, you'll end up getting a girl because she approached you or she stopped waiting for you to make your move on her. While some guys look at that as success, I'd disagree for the most part. It's too passive and you limit your options because of that. A guy that's good with women can approach the woman he chooses, get her to see him as a sexual option, and close her as opposed to her closing him. I love your approach to things because it sounds like you are going to be good at working the room, I just don't want you to get stuck being the room worker. Don't be that guy that will have guys wanting to hang out with you because you have the ability to open but they get the girl because you won't close.
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Post by maxfactor112 on Jun 14, 2021 1:49:22 GMT
I"ll definitely remember that between now and the next time I go out JackZero. Like I said, I know I can do better and I will. I appreciate the constructive criticism because I know its the only way I can continue to look for what I"m doing right and what I've been doing wrong and what I can do/not do in the future.
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