Wacker
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Post by Wacker on Aug 22, 2021 3:47:30 GMT
Okay. So I had a really solid interaction with a girl working at the gift shop at a museum the other day. She was pretty shy and even mentioned that shes not used to being flirted with. The following day she shot me a text saying
Her. "I am not fully comfortable dating and i want to keep things on a friendship-y basis if thats alright with you"
Me. "Yeah. We can keep things friendly. 'Dating' tends to put alot of unnecessary pressure on things ".
I know that once i get her in person il be able to change her mind. Could i have handled this in a better way?
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Post by pilgrimmeister on Aug 22, 2021 4:55:12 GMT
She's put you in the Friendzone as she doesn't see you as a sexual option. Onto the next one, unless you are happy to keep her as a platonic friend.
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Post by curtis72 on Aug 23, 2021 17:23:12 GMT
Okay. So I had a really solid interaction with a girl working at the gift shop at a museum the other day. She was pretty shy and even mentioned that shes not used to being flirted with. The following day she shot me a text saying Her. "I am not fully comfortable dating and i want to keep things on a friendship-y basis if thats alright with you" Me. "Yeah. We can keep things friendly. 'Dating' tends to put alot of unnecessary pressure on things ". I know that once i get her in person il be able to change her mind. Could i have handled this in a better way? How? Just as an FYI, women aren't trustworthy with the reasons they cut things romantically. They're trained to spare feelings as much as possible, as some guys may lash out when things don't go their way. If she was talking to a guy who looked like Kelly Oubre or a young Randy Orton, she wouldn't be wanting to keep things on a friendship-y basis. |
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Post by JackZero on Aug 23, 2021 20:44:17 GMT
With what you explained, I agree with Pilgrim. However, you know more about the situation to say why the interaction was really solid. The thing I have a problem with initially is that this girl was working. When a girl is working and you approach, it can sometimes be like a hostage situation for the girl. It's her job and she has to be nice for the most part. So what you think may have been a good interaction may be skewed because of the circumstance that she was in.
I'm not sure if you could have done anything better. Just be aware of the conditions of your environment.
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Post by spicybisket on Dec 5, 2021 13:33:18 GMT
Okay. So I had a really solid interaction with a girl working at the gift shop at a museum the other day. She was pretty shy and even mentioned that shes not used to being flirted with. The following day she shot me a text saying Her. "I am not fully comfortable dating and i want to keep things on a friendship-y basis if thats alright with you" Me. "Yeah. We can keep things friendly. 'Dating' tends to put alot of unnecessary pressure on things ". I know that once i get her in person il be able to change her mind. Could i have handled this in a better way? So? Anything happen? Are the guys right and this is friendzone? Most likely FZ but I would have tried for a date and see how it goes. |
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Post by Wacker on Dec 6, 2021 15:21:19 GMT
We chatted on the phone for a while a couple days later which was overall good. We connected on some things and laughed a good amount. Nothing too sexual because she wanted to just be friends. But at the end i told her that i needed to go to bed because i had to be up early. Its interesting because i could hear the change in her voice into a More negative/disappointed tone. We made plans during the call to go rolling blading sometime that weekend but she flaked out. Nothing came of it.
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Post by spicybisket on Dec 6, 2021 22:14:07 GMT
We chatted on the phone for a while a couple days later which was overall good. We connected on some things and laughed a good amount. Nothing too sexual because she wanted to just be friends. But at the end i told her that i needed to go to bed because i had to be up early. Its interesting because i could hear the change in her voice into a More negative/disappointed tone. We made plans during the call to go rolling blading sometime that weekend but she flaked out. Nothing came of it. Maybe she was waiting for you to up the game? At anyrate, it doesn't sound like you were that interested. |
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