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Married
Aug 25, 2021 11:50:10 GMT
via mobile
Post by withakay on Aug 25, 2021 11:50:10 GMT
I'm new, so forgive if I don't use the proper shorthand.
I'm married, but still want to meet ladies and fool around. Should I let girls know I'm married or hide that tidbit?
Thanks
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Post by JackZero on Aug 25, 2021 14:48:49 GMT
It would depend on your goal. If you want one night stands, then there is no reason. If you want to have a regular girl on the side, you should tell her. If you are doing this for sex on the side, just get an escort so you can keep it a secret.
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Post by ecudes17 on Oct 21, 2022 0:34:26 GMT
You shouldn't cheat on your wife......
With that being said, context matters. "Jackzero" laid out a pretty solid approach based on logistics. However, those logistics assume the "lay."
How would women respond initially to a married man hitting on them? Depends on the woman. Some might find it to be a turnoff, a sleazy type of move, something that points to a character flaw they aren't willing to associate with. Others might see it as a challenge, a sign of preselection, with an element of taboo that turns them on.
So theoretically, from an attraction standpoint, if one was going to see women on the side; He could hide it so not to risk turning the woman off or he could pretend to be a faithful husband, essentially teasing the woman.
I've already made my stance clear on the infidelity aspect of this question. I would say, if a man decides that he must go down this path, he should at least wear it on his sleeve. How much lying do you want to spin around in? You want to live a lie with your life partner and with every stranger of the opposite sex you meet as well? Good luck with that.
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