Wacker
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Post by Wacker on Jan 28, 2022 2:21:28 GMT
Do you guys know of any long distance monogamous relationships that have actually worked out? Like couples that are on different continents. Or have they all failed due to jealously, distrust or just overall pressure to not go out and be as social... scared to cheat on their partner.
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Post by Seducer237 on Jan 28, 2022 3:54:36 GMT
Do you guys know of any long distance monogamous relationships that have actually worked out? Like couples that are on different continents. If you had said different cities then that was something, but I haven't heard of a long distance relationship between people living in two different continents... I know friends that tried to make long distance relationship(not different continents) work out but most of them didn't work out and one of the two ended up cheating. Heck, when I was in high school I had a girl in my class whose bf had left school the previous year and was living in a different city. She was pretty lonely since they had no physical contact and talked on the phone mostly and after a while that too got boring for her. When all was said and done she finally dumped him and started going out with me😝. So from what I've seen before I'll never be in a long distance relationship with a girl(doesn't matter if it's cities or continents). Anyway, that's my opinion on long distance relationship although I reckon you can make it work if you really want to(although it's very rare) ... |
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Post by JackZero on Feb 1, 2022 20:37:46 GMT
I'm more interested in knowing why someone would want to have a relationship like that?
Secondly, what does this even mean?:
Did the ones that work out mean that they eventually ended up in the same location and are currently living happily ever after? Or did it mean that the distance didn't do anything that caused stress on the relationship that caused the couple to break up?
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Post by Seducer237 on Feb 4, 2022 15:27:44 GMT
Secondly, what does this even mean?: Did the ones that work out mean that they eventually ended up in the same location and are currently living happily ever after? Or did it mean that the distance didn't do anything that caused stress on the relationship that caused the couple to break up? They ended up living together in the same place after getting married but before marriage they were barely able to keep their relationship alive. |
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Post by Kartel on Nov 24, 2023 10:12:08 GMT
Do you guys know of any long distance monogamous relationships that have actually worked out? Like couples that are on different continents. i know one couple originally from europe. this story happened about 30 years ago. they got to know each-other at the end of their high school, in their twenties. they both wanted to emigrate to north america and settle there together. because of a serie of circumstances, they realized there was no way for them to achieve this goal legally and easily as an european couple. they decided to adopt an alternative solution: each of them got a tourist visa and once arrived in north america each of them accepted any miserable job they could find without documents and without contract but that would pay them cash at the end of each day. then each of them saved enough to do a business-like marriage paying around 10000 USD to the citizen of that country they were marrying just to get the citizenship. the citizenship was not granted immediately, it was a requirement to stay married for about 5 years before applying for citizenship of the husband/wife. it was a business agreement: no sex, no emotions, no nothing between each of them and the person they married for the citizenship. they loved each-other and their goal was to manage to be a couple again once they both got the right documents. after the business marriage, each of them got a better legal job. from the moment they left europe, they didn't meet for circa 10 years but they were keeping in contact almost daily, via phone as back then internet was not as evolved as nowadays. then after a few years internet got better and skype arrived. besides the phone calls, now they were also able to finally see each-other via skype at least. all this while being business married for the citizenship. then after about 10 years of going through this agony of platonic love, as soon as both of them received their citizenship and had all documents legal and everything right, they divorced from their business-married husband/wife, they finally physically met again, they got married to each-other, they had children and now they are still living happily together in north america. i personally met these two persons and to me what they achieved is a great source of inspiration, their story to me proves that will can truly overcome many difficulties. based on my personal personal perception of the world in which we live, what i see is that often the will lacks. i am aware that stories like this one there aren't many. |
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