Post by tinman on Apr 3, 2018 12:06:02 GMT
Town was so busy and full of stunning, teenage girls. I'm 29 now and tend to feel a bit weird about hitting on these young 18 year olds, but they are the hottest girls, and they also tend to make up a huge percentage of the girls who I see out, so it is what it is!
First open was an opinion opener on some hot teen standing at the bar. Opinion opener. As I was asking it, she was looking at me in complete disdain/contempt which maybe threw me off of my stride a little. After I delivered the opener, I 'rooted' it to explain why I was asking her which made her temporarily snigger/smile.
Problem was that I didn't continue, really. Like after she replied to my opener with like as short of a reply as possible, her body language was that of someone trying to get away, and in turn, I didn't then continue to try to talk to her or even ask her name or whatever, and then she just walked away lol.
I guess maybe I feel a bit 'obvious' about asking her name and stuff straight after my opinion opener. Like in doing so, it makes it obvious to her that my opener was 'fake' and thus lowers my value? I dunno. But I've had this happen to me a number of times. I ask an opinion opener. She answers in a very unenthusiastic way, and then I fail to really 'follow up' with anything. (the more unenthusiastic she is, the more likely I am to just stay quiet and not carry on talking!!)
Next I open a hot girl at one of the tables who is sitting with a bunch of people, although she appears to be kind of on the outskirts of the conversation? She's looking at the dancefloor, and so I open her with that observation, and say something like ''It looks like you're dying to get out there and dance!'' She looks at me and is like ''Nah, not really''. I say ''You don't like dancing?'' and then she briefly talks about how it's too early for her to dance and how she's not in the mood or whatever. Her eyes are shifting towards her various friends who are all in their own mini-conversations with each other, and I sense that this girl doesn't want to talk to me, but I try to carry on ploughing a little and just tell her what i'm up too, and ask what she's up too tonight. As she answers, some guy she appears to know comes up too her, and she stops mid-sentence and hugs him and starts talking to him, and she appears to have forgotten she was talking to me, so I eject. Don't think she was ever too keen.
I open some girl near the bar who is standing around with her 4 hot friends. She's got a very similar jacket on to me and I open her and tell her I like her jacket and accuse her of stealing my look. One of her friends smiles like she thinks what I said was funny, but the girl I opened is looking at me like i'm an alien lol. She looks about 15, but she's obviously at least 18 (UK drinking age) and she's as hot as hell. I ask her name and then she looks at her friends as if to say ''what do I do/say!!?''. I Feel like i'm the first ever person to approach her! I tease her and say ''You're not used to talking to strangers, huh?'' And then she's like ''it's a bit weird. I don't know you''. I tell her my name and try to use some 'statements of empathy' like ''It's cool. I'm not crazy or anything''. I ask for all of their names, and they reveal them in a fairly painful way. Constantly looking at each other as if to need each others permission to say their name. Long gaps in between. It's getting awkward. I ask what they are up too for the night, and now most of them are kind of turning their back to me, and one of them is still looking at me and tells me what they are up too etc. This girl seems like the sociable one in the group, but it's all way too awkward now, and I can feel that they'd rather
Sitting with my friends at the table drinking our cocktails and a girl is talking to one of my friends (I assume he opened her) - A few seconds after she throws a comment in my direction, and then we fall into a little conversation. She's teasing me about my jewellery or something and called me ''Justin Bieber'' lol. I say some stuff back and make her laugh a bit and We are chatting for a few minutes and I sense some 'possible' attraction and at one point I try to initiate some physical contact by just touching her arm to emphasise a point which she backs away from and calls me out on it!
She's like ''Whooaa!!'' (as if to say ''Who said you could touch me!?'') and backs away from me a few inches.
I don't overreact and I mimick her in a jokey way and also say ''Whooaa!! hashtag 'metoo'! 'A guy touched my elbow!'''' which makes her laugh. We carry on talking for another minute or 2. All illogical chat about kareoke and alchohol or something. Her friends are all at the bar now and she wants to join them and she ejects. I was never that into her so don't care.
Next set. This was one of the frustrating ones! I walk into a new bar and as soon as I set foot in the bar, I kind of do some silly dance . As if the music took my body over the second I entered the bar.
Immediately I see a girl look at me and crack up laughing and kind of clap and she's basically calling me over with her body language and eye contact. I walk over too her smiling and say ''I saw you laughing at me! You're mean!! I hate you''. She says 'Nooo!!!! I loved your entrance!! I've been sitting her for an hour and you made the best entrance i've seen all night!!''.
We start chatting and I can sense attraction instantly. Very rare for me. She's 29 and she's pretty, although I tend to only go for much younger girls, but she's still hot.She's like a 7. After a while her friends want to move too a different room in the bar and she tells me to come with her. I tell her I'll join her in a bit as i'm getting some beers with my mates.
About 15 minutes later I go into the different room and she's there near the entraane and straight away signals me over alomostm like she's been waiting for me. Seems super keen. Flirty eye contact. We are talking again and at some point she asks me if I like her and also asks me if I'm single. She's clearly attracted, no!!? I'm being silly, but I show some intent back with lots of eye contact and some light touching.
This is where I WISH I had a friggin microphone on me (not the for the first time that night if you read on!) because I don't remember how it happened, but that is basically where that interaction ended!
I can't remember if she got dragged off to dance or If I ran out of things to say, or something else! I was obviously a bit drunk. Not drunk in terms of slurring and being stupid, but drunk in terms of memory loss the following morning!! If I had to guess what happened, I think she got pulled away by one of her friends, and I decided to 'play it cool' and let her come back to me which never happened!! lol Just feels weird in hindsight. She seemed as into me as any of the other girls i've slept with this year! I can't work out HOW, if she was so into me like she appeared to be, I lost how so easily!! Seems odd to me.
So she's gone now, but within about 2 minutes, the hottest girl of the night strikes up a conversation with me and tells me that I look like the singer in a band she likes. This one is like 18 years old and close to exactly what I like!! She's like an 8.5
I pretend to know the band and soon we are kind of vibing. This one was weird because, AGAIN I somehow let her slip away, and even though I don't remember exactly how it happened, i THINK what happened was that I have this weird thing where if a girl shows interest in me first (especially a hot one), I tend to act very ALOOF! And even though mysterymethod is all about doing that and advises that, I find that when I do it, all that happens is that the girls dissappear! So i'm pretty sure she opened me, we chatted a little, and I simply didn't abide by the 90/10 rule (probably partly because of not knowing what to say but in this case, I think it was because of some internal block I have when it comes to talking to HOT girls who seem to show interest in me before I show it in them!!)
Now, she didn't show as much interest in me as the first girl to be honest, but even striking up a conversation with a guy is somewhat of an IOI in my experience. I mean, I guess I could be wrong and she was never into me (and in a weird way that'd please me because I wouldn't feel like I ;lost' her!) but I feel like there was some interest there.
After that there were just a few dancefloor approaches that I think were all insta-rejections. Like, I approached girls and said ''Hey! Who are you?'' kind of thing and they just backturned me, or I looked at them and extended my hand to try to initiate a little dance/physicality, but they didn't want too.
End of night
First open was an opinion opener on some hot teen standing at the bar. Opinion opener. As I was asking it, she was looking at me in complete disdain/contempt which maybe threw me off of my stride a little. After I delivered the opener, I 'rooted' it to explain why I was asking her which made her temporarily snigger/smile.
Problem was that I didn't continue, really. Like after she replied to my opener with like as short of a reply as possible, her body language was that of someone trying to get away, and in turn, I didn't then continue to try to talk to her or even ask her name or whatever, and then she just walked away lol.
I guess maybe I feel a bit 'obvious' about asking her name and stuff straight after my opinion opener. Like in doing so, it makes it obvious to her that my opener was 'fake' and thus lowers my value? I dunno. But I've had this happen to me a number of times. I ask an opinion opener. She answers in a very unenthusiastic way, and then I fail to really 'follow up' with anything. (the more unenthusiastic she is, the more likely I am to just stay quiet and not carry on talking!!)
Next I open a hot girl at one of the tables who is sitting with a bunch of people, although she appears to be kind of on the outskirts of the conversation? She's looking at the dancefloor, and so I open her with that observation, and say something like ''It looks like you're dying to get out there and dance!'' She looks at me and is like ''Nah, not really''. I say ''You don't like dancing?'' and then she briefly talks about how it's too early for her to dance and how she's not in the mood or whatever. Her eyes are shifting towards her various friends who are all in their own mini-conversations with each other, and I sense that this girl doesn't want to talk to me, but I try to carry on ploughing a little and just tell her what i'm up too, and ask what she's up too tonight. As she answers, some guy she appears to know comes up too her, and she stops mid-sentence and hugs him and starts talking to him, and she appears to have forgotten she was talking to me, so I eject. Don't think she was ever too keen.
I open some girl near the bar who is standing around with her 4 hot friends. She's got a very similar jacket on to me and I open her and tell her I like her jacket and accuse her of stealing my look. One of her friends smiles like she thinks what I said was funny, but the girl I opened is looking at me like i'm an alien lol. She looks about 15, but she's obviously at least 18 (UK drinking age) and she's as hot as hell. I ask her name and then she looks at her friends as if to say ''what do I do/say!!?''. I Feel like i'm the first ever person to approach her! I tease her and say ''You're not used to talking to strangers, huh?'' And then she's like ''it's a bit weird. I don't know you''. I tell her my name and try to use some 'statements of empathy' like ''It's cool. I'm not crazy or anything''. I ask for all of their names, and they reveal them in a fairly painful way. Constantly looking at each other as if to need each others permission to say their name. Long gaps in between. It's getting awkward. I ask what they are up too for the night, and now most of them are kind of turning their back to me, and one of them is still looking at me and tells me what they are up too etc. This girl seems like the sociable one in the group, but it's all way too awkward now, and I can feel that they'd rather
Sitting with my friends at the table drinking our cocktails and a girl is talking to one of my friends (I assume he opened her) - A few seconds after she throws a comment in my direction, and then we fall into a little conversation. She's teasing me about my jewellery or something and called me ''Justin Bieber'' lol. I say some stuff back and make her laugh a bit and We are chatting for a few minutes and I sense some 'possible' attraction and at one point I try to initiate some physical contact by just touching her arm to emphasise a point which she backs away from and calls me out on it!
She's like ''Whooaa!!'' (as if to say ''Who said you could touch me!?'') and backs away from me a few inches.
I don't overreact and I mimick her in a jokey way and also say ''Whooaa!! hashtag 'metoo'! 'A guy touched my elbow!'''' which makes her laugh. We carry on talking for another minute or 2. All illogical chat about kareoke and alchohol or something. Her friends are all at the bar now and she wants to join them and she ejects. I was never that into her so don't care.
Next set. This was one of the frustrating ones! I walk into a new bar and as soon as I set foot in the bar, I kind of do some silly dance . As if the music took my body over the second I entered the bar.
Immediately I see a girl look at me and crack up laughing and kind of clap and she's basically calling me over with her body language and eye contact. I walk over too her smiling and say ''I saw you laughing at me! You're mean!! I hate you''. She says 'Nooo!!!! I loved your entrance!! I've been sitting her for an hour and you made the best entrance i've seen all night!!''.
We start chatting and I can sense attraction instantly. Very rare for me. She's 29 and she's pretty, although I tend to only go for much younger girls, but she's still hot.She's like a 7. After a while her friends want to move too a different room in the bar and she tells me to come with her. I tell her I'll join her in a bit as i'm getting some beers with my mates.
About 15 minutes later I go into the different room and she's there near the entraane and straight away signals me over alomostm like she's been waiting for me. Seems super keen. Flirty eye contact. We are talking again and at some point she asks me if I like her and also asks me if I'm single. She's clearly attracted, no!!? I'm being silly, but I show some intent back with lots of eye contact and some light touching.
This is where I WISH I had a friggin microphone on me (not the for the first time that night if you read on!) because I don't remember how it happened, but that is basically where that interaction ended!
I can't remember if she got dragged off to dance or If I ran out of things to say, or something else! I was obviously a bit drunk. Not drunk in terms of slurring and being stupid, but drunk in terms of memory loss the following morning!! If I had to guess what happened, I think she got pulled away by one of her friends, and I decided to 'play it cool' and let her come back to me which never happened!! lol Just feels weird in hindsight. She seemed as into me as any of the other girls i've slept with this year! I can't work out HOW, if she was so into me like she appeared to be, I lost how so easily!! Seems odd to me.
So she's gone now, but within about 2 minutes, the hottest girl of the night strikes up a conversation with me and tells me that I look like the singer in a band she likes. This one is like 18 years old and close to exactly what I like!! She's like an 8.5
I pretend to know the band and soon we are kind of vibing. This one was weird because, AGAIN I somehow let her slip away, and even though I don't remember exactly how it happened, i THINK what happened was that I have this weird thing where if a girl shows interest in me first (especially a hot one), I tend to act very ALOOF! And even though mysterymethod is all about doing that and advises that, I find that when I do it, all that happens is that the girls dissappear! So i'm pretty sure she opened me, we chatted a little, and I simply didn't abide by the 90/10 rule (probably partly because of not knowing what to say but in this case, I think it was because of some internal block I have when it comes to talking to HOT girls who seem to show interest in me before I show it in them!!)
Now, she didn't show as much interest in me as the first girl to be honest, but even striking up a conversation with a guy is somewhat of an IOI in my experience. I mean, I guess I could be wrong and she was never into me (and in a weird way that'd please me because I wouldn't feel like I ;lost' her!) but I feel like there was some interest there.
After that there were just a few dancefloor approaches that I think were all insta-rejections. Like, I approached girls and said ''Hey! Who are you?'' kind of thing and they just backturned me, or I looked at them and extended my hand to try to initiate a little dance/physicality, but they didn't want too.
End of night