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Post by bluecollar on Oct 3, 2022 20:26:23 GMT
Hi guys! Im a newbie to this community and want to make sure my time here is well invested. I want to read the threads that would help a beginner the most.
I need help opening conversations, creating attraction in conversations and different methods to go "gaming"
I live in a small town with a nearby community colledge, I don't go to this colledge but I thought I might be useful for running a few social interactions, being that I'm 20 and most of the people are the same age or close to it. I just dont know how I would open anyone because, as bad as it sounds it would have to be in the parking lot. Unless this uneducated guy could find a way into the confines LOL.
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Post by TheWhiteTiger on Oct 4, 2022 0:01:46 GMT
There's a lot of questions here, so let's break it down one by one
First, does that college have a starbucks or some sort of coffee shop? They can't stop you from having coffee there. So there's that
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Post by bluecollar on Oct 4, 2022 0:45:02 GMT
I do have a Starbucks but it's not close to the college. I still think there is a lot of college students that use it. How would I go about approaching in a coffee shop?
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Wacker
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Post by Wacker on Oct 4, 2022 18:07:17 GMT
See a girl sitting by herself. Try to make eye contact with her while u buy your coffee. Go over to her with strong eyecontact and say.
Excuse me. You have a very peaceful presence about you. Let me join you.
And thats it. Ur now sitting with a cute girl in a conversation
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Post by TheWhiteTiger on Oct 4, 2022 19:01:58 GMT
Just for some expectation management, while Wacker's approach is good, don't expect it to work 100% of the time.
But yes, if all else fails, just walking over to a cute girl and being direct is pretty good.
I'd say start with no expectations because if you've never approached before and have AA, just going up and having the words come out of your mouth is a reason to celebrate.
Also, have you read "The Game"?
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Post by bluecollar on Oct 4, 2022 21:11:20 GMT
Just for some expectation management, while Wacker's approach is good, don't expect it to work 100% of the time. But yes, if all else fails, just walking over to a cute girl and being direct is pretty good. I'd say start with no expectations because if you've never approached before and have AA, just going up and having the words come out of your mouth is a reason to celebrate. Also, have you read "The Game"? I have just finished the second time reading “the game“ I think it's a great introduction to pick up and I need to keep reminding myself not to indulge to the point of no return like many of the guys did in the book |
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