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Post by doublesymetry on Dec 18, 2022 0:44:28 GMT
Went to a mall to get new earings. See a cute girl behind the counter. I come in smiling and say "i need earings and point at my ears" (I think she finds me attractive by the way).
I ask her to show me what she got.
Move arround the counter and say she looked bored. she smiles and says something along the lines "it's too early no customers".
She shows me some earings I try to get an earing through my ear and struggle, so I ask her to help me. She tries, but can't. Hands touch in the process i say she is warm. She smiles and tries to help me put earing on. She can't and points at my sister for me to help me. Finally can get the earing through. I ask her name "Juleimy" and i make a face of confusion and say July. Keep looking at earings and ask if shes new, and othe small talk stuff. I pick my earings and pay, but dont have the gust to ask for number. I ask her where can i get a gift wrapped, but since she's new she doesn't know.
I say ok and tell my sister we'll look for a place to do it, but lets look at some other stuff on thise store (tiny store we can see eachother all the time).
She helps some customers i "look at stuff" after she helps the other customers I declare that there is nothing else i would like to take other than her snap.She smiles and gives a shy smile, but dosent have snap. I ask instagram, or whatsapp? She says facebook and gives me her full name.
I pull my phone outcan't effing get into facebook, so declare I "can't get in", ask for her number and hand her my phone. She types it in and i say bye ill text you later. She Smiles and we say goodbye.
Go do some stuff and text her a few hrs later this "what's up July? This is Max from the earings. Save my number. 😏"
I think i effed up by putting the emojy, but it is what it is so.... what know?
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Post by doublesymetry on Dec 18, 2022 0:49:58 GMT
Forgot to mention.
There are getring earings done to a lil kid and she screaming her lungs out. I say "who is in Anais?" She says "yes" i say "she's torturing that kid" she laughs. Anais comes out for alil bit and say "you torture kids now?" Both laugh and Anais replies " i didn't do anything that girl's mom didn't pay for" we laugh and she goes to the back again. This happened at the time im struggling to get the earing in.
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Post by JackZero on Dec 18, 2022 1:35:53 GMT
What is your goal? The answer for what you should do now is going to be based on what you want.
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Post by doublesymetry on Dec 18, 2022 1:58:39 GMT
Wanna get laid, but wouldn't mind getting to know her.
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Post by JackZero on Dec 18, 2022 3:00:27 GMT
I'm going to give you a quick critic. It's awesome that you were able to approach and get a phone number. For me, seeing guys that are willing to take that first step are going to be the ones that will have success as long as you keep at it. The thing that I believe that you need to work on, and it's hard for most guys, is set her expectations on why you are taking her number or whatever you're using to communicate with her. Letting her know that you are going to get in touch in order for you guys to meet up, go out, or whatever.
Another thing is optimization of your approach. A quality approach is built around making sure you walk away with her viewing you as an attractive guy. Although someone who is working isn't optimal, so this situation was just a bit different. PUA has instant dates, but the goal is to get her to see that she can enjoy being around you. Basically, it's spending enough time with her so that a date is something that she wants even after you are gone.
Work on the vibe that you are setting. For me, I focus on demonstrating that I find a girl attractive and wanting to get to know her. Getting laid just comes with the territory if she's returning that same vibe.
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Post by doublesymetry on Dec 18, 2022 3:06:55 GMT
Noted and thx. I'll keep at it.
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Post by Wacker on Dec 18, 2022 6:49:05 GMT
Has she texted u back? If not send a text tomorrow evening about literally anything. But put it as a question. Something simple like"i just saw the movie smile. Terrifying! R u much into horror movies?"
If she doesnt text u back within 48 hours. Move onto the next girl. Sorry to put it that way but with meeting girls during the day. U are going to be collecting flaky number. Dont get too hung up over a flaky number because it will drive u nuts :/
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Post by N2thevoid on Dec 18, 2022 9:19:32 GMT
Forgot to mention. There are getring earings done to a lil kid and she screaming her lungs out. I say "who is in Anais?" She says "yes" i say "she's torturing that kid" she laughs. Anais comes out for alil bit and say "you torture kids now?" Both laugh and Anais replies " i didn't do anything that girl's mom didn't pay for" we laugh and she goes to the back again. This happened at the time im struggling to get the earing in. You know someone named Anais? Jesus christ. |
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Post by N2thevoid on Dec 18, 2022 9:20:58 GMT
Text her that you sense the intensity of her boredom miles away in this moment and if she can keep it down you're trying to focus
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Post by JackZero on Dec 18, 2022 17:06:05 GMT
Forgot to mention. There are getring earings done to a lil kid and she screaming her lungs out. I say "who is in Anais?" She says "yes" i say "she's torturing that kid" she laughs. Anais comes out for alil bit and say "you torture kids now?" Both laugh and Anais replies " i didn't do anything that girl's mom didn't pay for" we laugh and she goes to the back again. This happened at the time im struggling to get the earing in. You know someone named Anais? Jesus christ. I know someone named Anais. |
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Post by N2thevoid on Dec 19, 2022 7:00:05 GMT
You know someone named Anais? Jesus christ. I know someone named Anais. It's french in origin, I'm sure it'd mess with the Barista's at Starbucks. |
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Post by TheWhiteTiger on Jan 7, 2023 7:13:43 GMT
I know someone named Anais. It's french in origin, I'm sure it'd mess with the Barista's at Starbucks. I think "Bob" messes with the baristas at starbucks |
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Post by jacob bailer on Dec 6, 2023 16:32:13 GMT
getting a number doesnt mean youre going to get laid, or even a date. i know lots of pua who get tons of numbers but never even a call back. females can act like theyre feeling you in the moment and then either forget about you the next day or change their mind. ive had women offer their numbers to me without me asking. sounds like theyre into me right? wrong. i text them back and nothing. even men too. no homo. when u talking to other dudes. sometimes u think youre having a good converstaion. you exchange details and never talk again. people tend to gravitate towards people they see regularly. this is why people open up to their mailmen. u probably have nothing in common wit him but see him regularly. even people u were really close wit in high school. ur not going to call them much once u leave hs cause u dont see each other like u used to. this is why some dont recomend the cold approach cause females dont know u from a hole in the wall and dont run into each other regularly. i honestly have a much better chance with a cashier of a store that i see often than i do with a random hot chic at a bar
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Post by JackZero on Dec 6, 2023 17:04:02 GMT
getting a number doesnt mean youre going to get laid, or even a date. i know lots of pua who get tons of numbers but never even a call back. females can act like theyre feeling you in the moment and then either forget about you the next day or change their mind. ive had women offer their numbers to me without me asking. sounds like theyre into me right? wrong. i text them back and nothing. even men too. no homo. when u talking to other dudes. sometimes u think youre having a good converstaion. you exchange details and never talk again. people tend to gravitate towards people they see regularly. this is why people open up to their mailmen. u probably have nothing in common wit him but see him regularly. even people u were really close wit in high school. ur not going to call them much once u leave hs cause u dont see each other like u used to. this is why some dont recomend the cold approach cause females dont know u from a hole in the wall and dont run into each other regularly. i honestly have a much better chance with a cashier of a store that i see often than i do with a random hot chic at a bar I have to ask...when a girl gives you her number, why is she giving it to you? Although, you may think it's an obvious reason...there may be more to it. However, I do agree with you on the fact that just getting a number doesn't mean it's going anywhere farther than that. |
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