Day 3 AFC'ish makeout session

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I've met a Japanese girl from online dating and we've gone on two dates before this one; one regular coffee date (my treat), and then a walk in the local community park with some more coffee (also my treat, you can see where this is going)

Anyway, I've recently invited her saying we should go for drinks, but I wanted to try and get her to my place, so I said we should go since there are some good bars in my neighborhood. Problem is, I do not have a car so we have to transit to get to my neighborhood. I told her I'll meet her and we'll take the bus together... I gotta say, keeping conversation going on the bus is rather difficult, but I tried talking about things that will give me a chance to kino as well. Talk about working out, she talks about her workout and I say "working on them arms of steel, eh?" and squeeze her arms.

Finally we get off, and lo and behold, it was a Sunday and the bar I wanted to go to is closed because they are cocksucking assholes... So we go to the neighborhoodJapanese restaurant (which does not have a single Japanese person working there). We order some beer and snacks, talk a lot, but we're sitting across from each other so kino isn't exactly easy. I wanted to try some routines, but I forgot all of them, and plus her English isn't exactly top notch. If anyone can tell me about routines that need very little language but can still do cold reading I'd be grateful.

I remembered on the way on the bus we talked about a movie whose title she sent me and I mentioned we should watch it together sometime, so after we finish our drinks and snacks (yes, my treat! >_<), I say "let's go for a walk." I recalled she wanted to see some cherry blossoms because it reminds her of home, and for some reason in my neighborhood there are tons of them, so we walk through scenic route that comes to my place.

I ask her if she wants anything to drink, water or white wine, she picks the wine and we sit down to watch the movie. Overall it's the usual ritual, watch for several minutes, then I slowly turn her face, look her in the eyes, and kiss her. She starts kissing back, and we make out for a while. Then take a break (I stop the makeout), watch some more, then make out again, this time her hand is touching my chest so hey, what's fair is fair, right? I start playing with her breast too and WOW is her breast sensitive! just the way I like it. Stop again, wait, go at it again, but on the third time I stopped after a short while, stood up, took up her hand and made her stand up as well. Then I picked her up (literally) and carried her to my bedroom. I already have something in mind in case she says "no sex," (just say "ok, but it's more comfortable kissing here"), but nothing of the sort happens and we just continue making out and I play with her boobs. At some point I reach my hand under her clothes and start playing directly with her nipple (her bra cup was easy to "peel off" a bit to expose it) and she was actually shaking when I did that. I kept kissing her and playing with her nipples, then started licking them and she went crazy; shaking, moaning, trying to hold her moans in, the whole shebang.

After several minutes of this she goes "Break! break!" so okay, you can have a break. I thought we would keep lying there making out, but she actually passed out so I'm not sure what exactly happened there, though she is a bit small and had some sake and a glass of wine. So I think this is actually a good chance for her to rest/sleep whatever and process some of the alcohol so she doesn't end up doing something because of just the alcohol. Also, I count this as a plus because if she is asleep, she's feeling safe at my place. She naps there for about 20 minutes and wakes up, so we start making out again, and then I sit her up on my bed and say "arms up." She complies and I take off her top and her bra. She falls back on the bed giggling and covering her breasts so I just start kissing her stomach and her arms until she slowly opens them up and I can attack those sensitive nipples mercilessly again.

While kissing her boobs (and her lips, changing once in a while), I use my hand to slide my finger up her leg and begin massaging her pussy though her pants, and she is WET. We're both enjoying this and after a few more minutes of making out, I change positions so I can slide my hand into her pants and massage her pussy through her underwear (also it's easier to start teasing her clit like this). She goes crazy and can't hold her moans in any more... but hey, I don't like my neighbors anyway. A few minutes more of moaning and shaking aaaaaaaaaaaaand she needs another break. I don't mind complying since we're just lying there spooning and bonding. But this time my patience didn't last as much, and after 10 minutes I start nibbling on her shoulders and neck, using one hand to tease her nipple and the other to slowly slide my way down to her pussy, and start playing with her bare clit. She goes berserk, just the way I like and very shortly her pants are off too. 

At the point I decided to test things and stick my finger into her pussy and wow, she is tight! understand, I have quite skinny hands and fingers, and she still feels tight so I don't think my dick would go in smoothly at all. We made out more, I think I made her cum but I can't tell with this one because she's too shy and conservative to be like "I came!" though she was shaking and moaning louder and louder, and then after she asked for her third break her entire body became sensitive so I couldn't even spoon her. 

We didn't end up having sex because of a combination of reasons; (a) I think was still in an AFC mentality and too worried about sticking my dick in her and (b) I'm used to having sex with girls that I can have the "when did you last get an STI test?" conversation with, but this one I'm not sure how to go about it since she isn't a citizen here and so doesn't have medical insurance to cover those tests , any suggestions on this are appreciated

So generally, we're still talking, I'm in another town right now visiting my folks but need to figure out another hangout at my place for us two. Need to figure out if I'm gonna have sex with her and how to approach it. Would like to practice some routines on her for the sake of having something that could work on non English speakers, and want to start getting something back for all the money I put into her thus far, so I'm thinking of inviting her for dinner at my place, and entrusting her with getting the wine/alcohol.

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First of all..great field report man. I liked everything that you did, leading to you pulling her back to your home. I also liked how you detailed the sexual escalation process with her in the bedroom. I feel like guys are reluctant to put that part of it into their field reports. That information is still very helpful, because you can still lose the girl during the sexual escalation process in the bedroom. And if that does happen..we would still need to know the explicit details about what took place in the bedroom that either helped or hurt you. So good job!




#1 - You need to download the "Google Translate App" ASAP! You can use it to communicate to any non-English speaking girl. I have the "Google Translate App" on my phone, and i have used it a few times to communicate with girls who speak a foreign language. As long as she knows enough English to tell you what language that she speaks. You can literally speak into your phone in English. Then you can let her hear your phone say what you said in English, back to her in her own language. This App comes through in the clutch when it comes to language barriers between you and a chick who speaks a foreign language. Just say whatever you would say to the girl normally, if you were talking to any English speaking girl..only using the "Google Translate App" as the medium for communication between you and her. But you seemed to do just fine with this girl without it. But still download it anyway, just in case you do need it in the future. It's a free downloadable App.




#2 - Bro if she let you put your fingers inside her pussy, then she definitely would've let you slide your dick inside her pussy as well. Did you ever think about that? If you're afraid of putting your dick in her because her vagina was so tight..that's what lube is for. Glaze your dick with lube, or use lotion if you don't have lube. Those kind of lubrications will help you get your penis inside her alot smoother, than if you were just going in dry and un-lubbed up. If that doesn't work..use your fingers and some of your own spit to loosen up her vagina. Finger her, starting off with one finger at a time. By the time you're able to get about 3 of your fingers sliding in and out of her vagina..then it should be loose enough for you to smoothly slide your penis inside her vagina. Go in real slow, and fuck her real slow at first, just so you don't hurt the girl. Then gradually increase your speed. Just pull out when you're about to cum, and cum on her chest or on her back or whatever (Just don't cum inside her). There is no pussy in this whole world that is too tight for a penis to be inserted into it, trust me. Don't forget that whole babies come out of there. And i don't think that your penis is as large as a baby Lol. I had issues like this come up with girls in the past too. As a matter of fact..it used to be a major sticking point for me, that i eventually broke through. So the quite detailed instructions that i gave you in this paragraph, in my "How to still fuck a girl who has a super tight pussy"..will definitely get you to still get the job done, should this same issue pop up again. And don't worry about all that other stuff (not hearing the STI questions from girls like you said that you're used to hearing it from, and her not being a citizen where you are from) that are really just excuses, for you justifying to yourself not manning up and closing the deal. If you're worried about all that, just buy some condoms.




That was a tough near miss for you, because all you literally had to do was..just stick your hard dick in her pussy, and that's it, "Mission Complete". The other stuff that you did like: Gaming her online..Getting her to come out on 2 previous dates with you..Getting her to take the bus with you, since you didn't have a car..Still communicating with her effectively, even with a bit of a language barrier there..Pulling her back to your place..and Getting her to comply with your physical escalation on her in the bedroom..are all very difficult to successfully pull off, in comparison to you just having to insert your penis into her vagina. That was the easy part. It hurts me that you came that close after all of that hard work that you did (Which was well done btw!!!), and still didn't f-close. But i have a nagging feeling that you won't make this same mistake anymore, after reading this. Lol




Btw..i hope that she will give you another crack at her. You deserve another chance for all the work that you put into this girl. I commend you for it.




-G