Volleyball girl

[happyhaboj]

Alright honestly this might be kinda a dumb question to ask but I’ve done some searching and also just grappled with it for a few days now and don’t know what the right move is.

I’m at my younger sisters volleyball tournament in Orlando and one of their teammates has an older sister who’s my age and is really pretty, but this is my first time meeting her.

She goes to a different school but still in our conference so if I got her number it’d be possible to hang out when we get back but I’m not sure if it’s cool I ask. Like should I just go for it and ask her? Or is it too risky and might out me to my sisters? I’m just wondering if it’s a smart thing to do and any advice would be appreciated.

[JackZero]

This is a very vague description of what's happening. Please give some detail of where you stand with her. Have you even had a conversation with her yet or are you getting your information through you younger sister?

If you haven't had a conversation with her yet, you want to get her to see you as someone that she would look forward to going out on a date with. If this tournament is still going, you want to introduce yourself and have a conversation with some flirting. Move onto having an instadate with her, which can be something as simple as a walk around the facility you guys are at. If she does all of that with you, you'll more than likely be able to get her number with the intent of an actual date.

[happyhaboj]

My bad yeah I’ve had a small conversation with her at a team dinner but it hasn’t gone farther than that so I’m not exactly sure where I stand with her. She was pretty chill and even smiled a few times but wouldn’t meet my eyes so not really sure

[JackZero]

Yeah...I'd try to get her on the hook first before attempting a planned date. Not saying that directly asking her out or getting her number wouldn't work, but that generally works when a girl is already into you. From what you wrote, I'm not getting that vibe. However, I could be wrong about the vibe.