rocky
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Oct 15, 2019 5:44:55 GMT
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Post by rocky on Oct 15, 2019 5:44:55 GMT
What do you need to make yourself feel better? Get her back, but in regards to show her what she left and make her realize how bad of a girl friend she was. I want to be able to get a badder and more loving girl that tops her. I want to succeed without her.
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Post by pilgrimmeister on Oct 15, 2019 11:06:16 GMT
Fuck getting her back for anything, wipe her out of your life so you can move forward. Chances are she will already have a new boyfriend lined up and the last you need is to keep her around and let her rub that in your face as that is what will happen.
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rocky
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Oct 15, 2019 16:52:15 GMT
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Post by rocky on Oct 15, 2019 16:52:15 GMT
Fuck getting her back for anything, wipe her out of your life so you can move forward. Chances are she will already have a new boyfriend lined up and the last you need is to keep her around and let her rub that in your face as that is what will happen. Easier said than done . There's a chance I'll see her next month cuz shes my sister's friend and she's having a baby shower :/ shit blows donkey dick.
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Post by pilgrimmeister on Oct 15, 2019 17:10:05 GMT
In that case you will have to grin and bear it when she has her tounge down another guys throat right in front of you. You will just have to pretend you no longer care, but playing silly games doesn't achieve anything
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Post by JackZero on Oct 15, 2019 17:31:09 GMT
OP, I'm trying to figure you out. My thoughts are you want to do the right thing for yourself but you can't let her go until she feels bad. If I'm right, the way you are going to go about things is that you are going to give her everything she needs to verify that she was right to leave you.
Why not be bigger in all of this? If you think you deserve better, she did you a favor in leaving. If she wasn't happy with you, why not wish her well and hope that she finds what she needs to be happy. You guys weren't compatible. You knew she wasn't a good girlfriend and you tried to force her to be.
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Post by N2thevoid on Oct 15, 2019 18:55:09 GMT
Your intentions are misplaced.
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rocky
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Oct 15, 2019 23:50:52 GMT
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Post by rocky on Oct 15, 2019 23:50:52 GMT
I guess the reason is because she said I could never do better. agh, that one stung!but you're all right. I gotta focus on the right reasons or I'll never get over her.
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rocky
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Oct 15, 2019 23:53:59 GMT
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Post by rocky on Oct 15, 2019 23:53:59 GMT
OP, I'm trying to figure you out. My thoughts are you want to do the right thing for yourself but you can't let her go until she feels bad. If I'm right, the way you are going to go about things is that you are going to give her everything she needs to verify that she was right to leave you. Why not be bigger in all of this? If you think you deserve better, she did you a favor in leaving. If she wasn't happy with you, why not wish her well and hope that she finds what she needs to be happy. You guys weren't compatible. You knew she wasn't a good girlfriend and you tried to force her to be. Yeah, I would try to make her into something she wasn't ready to be, a wifey. I'm almost 30 and she just turned 23. I thought I was able to hang with her and style of life but she broke my trust and we both tryd so hard to make it work but we always fought. Idk man, I need some soul searching
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Post by N2thevoid on Oct 16, 2019 19:10:11 GMT
I guess the reason is because she said I could never do better. agh, that one stung!but you're all right. I gotta focus on the right reasons or I'll never get over her. It only stung because a part of you bought into that notion long before she said it.
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rocky
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Oct 18, 2019 14:04:04 GMT
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Post by rocky on Oct 18, 2019 14:04:04 GMT
I guess the reason is because she said I could never do better. agh, that one stung!but you're all right. I gotta focus on the right reasons or I'll never get over her. It only stung because a part of you bought into that notion long before she said it. Tbh I did but it's mentally draining if you're always hearing remarks like that. It was a toxic relationship and now I'm noticing some of the toxicity she scared me with. Girls are fucken psycho!
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