maestro
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Post by maestro on Oct 14, 2020 0:46:11 GMT
Because I didn't go for a number close.
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Post by JackZero on Oct 14, 2020 0:49:20 GMT
Because I didn't go for a number close. Outstanding answer! I mean that sincerely. Thank you. Why didn't you go for the number close?
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maestro
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Post by maestro on Oct 14, 2020 10:30:01 GMT
Because she was a friend of a friend so I was going to see her again. Admittedly I don't go for the number close enough.
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Post by Kartel on Oct 14, 2020 10:59:56 GMT
maestro, you are too rigid concerning the method. what JackZero described is exactly what happened also from my point of view: Do you think that it is possible that this girl was waiting on you to take action and instead you were concentrating on stories? If a girl rubs her leg against my leg, the last thing I'm going to do is tell a story unless it's a story about the last girl that rubbed against my leg like that. You are going to have a hard time if you don't act on what you are getting from a woman in the moment as opposed to having a game plan that you need for her to follow in order for you to proceed. She was rubbing against your fucking leg! In PUA terminology, she was doing kino on you and you couldn't even match the energy she was giving you. She was playing her role in the attraction game and you weren't. She knew you were interested. She gave you permission to proceed and you didn't follow through. Women tend to find that unattractive and you'll lose what attraction that you've built. i totally agree with JackZero - this is precisely the situation in which you found yourself following a method, step by step as written in the "manual" is not always productive. what is productive instead is to be flexible and be able to recognize and be aware in any moment in any interaction with any female target at what point one finds itself and recalibrate itself from there on. in your case, you got relevant ioi (proximity plus kino) and instead of recalibrating your way to continue, you were too focused on following the "manual" step by step thinking you were at a point way behind than where you actually were, when in reality with those ioi your situation took a huge leap forward and the situation demanded that you became instantly aware of it.
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maestro
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Post by maestro on Oct 14, 2020 13:29:29 GMT
Yah I know, I was thinking about the manual when I should have just been reciprocating what she was doing. My bad.
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Post by JackZero on Oct 14, 2020 18:42:57 GMT
Because she was a friend of a friend so I was going to see her again. Admittedly I don't go for the number close enough. This is where I think you create problems for yourself. Don't get insulted because I'm going off observations on the information you give us. There may be more to what you do but what I see are excuses for inaction. Some guys protect their ego so they would rather believe they could get the girl rather than get the girl and they'll come up for reasons why they don't get the girl. This is why MM and other systems resonates with so many guys. Her being a friend of a friend is an excuse for not acting just as running out of DHV stories was an excuse for not acting. It allows for you to hold onto that belief of you would have been able to get her if it wasn't for the situation. It's the same thing with the excuse that you don't go for the number close enough. That allows you to believe that you would have been able to get the number if you tried. Your ego doesn't have to take that hit if there's actual rejection. You get to fail because of the things that you didn't do correctly as opposed to her saying "no" because she's not into you specifically. A girl rejecting you is okay because you will never ever get all of the girls. A girl rejecting you in your social circle is the best type of rejection as long as you handle it correctly. Good man.
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Post by pilgrimmeister on Oct 16, 2020 21:27:25 GMT
All these guides and routines should just be points of reference. You don't need to follow it to the letter, but adapt it to make it your own and fit you, so that you can be totally fluid.
If a woman sits next to me stroking my leg, as soon as I get a rod on I return the favour with my cock, so she knows exactly what time it is, and an uber is called soon after to take us to bang town. Sod the number close in that situation.
Women like the smooth operator which is the whole point of gameand not following rules and routines to the letter, else a Robot could get his leg over if it were that easy.
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Post by ekrin987 on Dec 12, 2020 17:25:47 GMT
What? What? What? What am I missing here?
You do not need to sit around and talk about how great you are till she rips off her clothes and gives you a lap dance. You told her about yourself and she seemed to like it.
Now kiss her and practice performance routines, damnit!
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Post by N2thevoid on Dec 22, 2020 10:21:38 GMT
she was doing kino on you and you couldn't even match the energy she was giving you. She was playing her role in the attraction game and you weren't. She knew you were interested. She gave you permission to proceed and you didn't follow through. Women tend to find that unattractive and you'll lose what attraction that you've built. And bingo was his name-o.
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