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Post by JackZero on Apr 3, 2022 14:12:02 GMT
To be honest, I can't figure out what you are hoping to achieve with your dates. It's almost like you don't know how you want them to end. What do you mean? At the moment I want them to lead to a second date What is it that you want to happen on a date? |
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Post by TheWhiteTiger on May 2, 2022 2:23:46 GMT
Following up on this, on the first date I want it to lead to a kiss close, is that what you meant?
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Post by JackZero on May 2, 2022 4:35:01 GMT
Following up on this, on the first date I want it to lead to a kiss close, is that what you meant? Pretty much what I meant. I want to know if you actually have a goal for a date and then what is it that you need to do to achieve that goal. You have a decent enough goal, but what do you do that allows you to get to that goal? Kiss closes aren't asking for too much, so it is achievable. My goal for any date is to make sure that a woman looks at me as someone that she wants to have sex with. It doesn't have to be sex today but she knows at the end of that first date that things are going in that direction. So in turn, I have to project that energy to her through my communications and actions. If your goal is to lead to a kiss close you have her view you as someone she can see kissing at some point on the date. As I say that, I know your question is how do you get a girl to view you that way? For your specific goal, it is likely going to be achievable through the way you flirt with her. The way you flirt with her should make her feel good about the moment of the two of you being together. When she is open to the idea of you kissing her, she is going to give you a nonverbal signal telling you to go for the kiss and go for it right now. What is the signal? She is going to likely look in your eyes like she's waiting for you to say something, but that is your go signal. |
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Post by TheWhiteTiger on May 2, 2022 4:49:11 GMT
Yeah I see what you're saying, but it is very much the flirting part I'm struggling with... again what also makes it hard is the lack of opportunity to practice for me
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Post by JackZero on May 2, 2022 16:16:13 GMT
Sometimes you have to get creative in order to make opportunities.
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Post by Wacker on May 5, 2022 3:36:13 GMT
You should be kissing her half way into the date. Never at the end.
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Post by JackZero on May 5, 2022 3:54:08 GMT
You should be kissing her half way into the date. Never at the end. You sound like me. |
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